calamari, exactly... i told my mom, when she walk u got to chase her.. but she claim say now her neck soft soft, got to carry to shower her, say very risky. But i understand her concerns, cos her legs not very strong. As for my MIL... blessing in digust that she did not really bother about my girl. So far seen her 3 or 4 times only for past 4 mths hahah.
skinney, its ok. But thats what this forum is for, as pessimistic and depress we are in our life, when come to this forum, we got to encourage each other, not discourage, cos like tat more depress. Dun look at it as go back to work u less back pain. Look at it that u go back to work, with the money save up, if ur kid wants to go university in future, u can have some cash for her. Or even to fulfil her dreams, maybe she hope to go japan disneyland on her 10yrs old birthday. Life is like tat, no best of both worlds. (this is what i wrote in facebook - 想了没有用，就别想了。想不通，也就别想。 钻牛脚尖，更不要想。人生就是如此，简单的头脑最好。)
GG, yes with her on in IFC, i really appreciate the time with her more.
Icic, me too, cant wait to fetch her home. Manage to talk to my partner, will go in later to office say 11am plus, and leave work earlier say 6pm for at least another 2-3mths. (office is 10 to 7)
