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Calamari, dun need to feel paisay, terence like all man, will filter those not relevant or of interest to him. My gfs always chat infront of him and they call him Ms Lim. He will sit there filter, and suddenly hear something interest him, he will suddenly make a comment and ask us to tell him more -.- sibeh kpo.
Most singapore man got no initiatives, not proactive, too pampered by their mother or grandparents. COS BOY CARRY THEIR SURNAME MAH!!
LILEEN, u not under depression, u just depress, cos if u depression u wont even voice out here, u will keep to urself and swallow all ur sorrows. So please voice out here, we are here for u. Seriously ur hubby a bit guo fen, u shld find a way to talk to him. If not get him to see a counsellor with u. I think its his upbringing that make him so dependent, his sis also like tat confirm its their mother take too good care of them. Terence use to be like tat, always depend on others, cos he's the only grandson/son. So his aunty, grandfather is so ever ready to provide for him. Until he know me, he got bit torture by me, so he is better now. But terence character is diff, he always let me scold scold until i calm down. Ur hubby seems to be bochap, so might not even listen to u. Then get someone else to talk to him.