hi all, finally got the chance to log in... tks all for the wishes... in the end, i dint get a smooth delivery...
my birth story ...
i went in tmc ard 1230am tues morning, supposed to induce labour as cervix nt yet dilated, and was overdue liao, edd supposed to be 31/12....
started on pill, checked , was 0.5cm dilated, put tablet, after a while, immed can feel contractions... wah, was quite unbearable for me lor.. asked for pain relief, nurse say cannot la, so early...
ard 3plus, stil intense contractions, after poo done and all, was prob ard 3-4cm dilated, nurse see me quite pain, ask me go in labour room.. use laughing gas...
ard 4plus, nurse checked me still nt really dilating fast enuff.. suddenly me quite giddy after the laughin gas BUt doesnt help in reducin any pain lor... see nurse keep staring at the monitor, can sense somthing wrong... asked her if i can use epi, she say wait, she called my gynae, then i asked her, huh? so fast can deliver meh? u call him come? she say she is nt happy with the readings...
oops, i sense something wrong, was shivering and panicking... i asked her, wats the prob... she said, bb might be in distress cos heartbeat suddenly dropped and faint readings, dun wana take any risk, so called my gynae..
he arrived in a short while, came and check me, wah.. he say cannot, cervix stil nt dilating enuff, need to opt, ask my husband to come and stand beside him as he burst my waterbag i think... he say, see, bb poo a bit inside me liao, need to opt la, dun take any risk...i was already very scared and keep repeating prayers in my mind and said.. pls save my bb, pls save my bb....
next min, i was pushed to the OT.. nurse asked me sign a form , was under GA cos no time for epi liao... i remember i vomitted durin the opt or after the opt.. was half past 6 lor.. keep on hearing the doc callin my name and askin me to wake up .... then i jus blur blur open my eyes and all...
next thing i knw, i was pushed back to the ward liao... i can hear my husband talking to me.. say, already saw the bb, very cute... i was so relieved.. remembered asking him, "is he ok? 10 toes? 10 fingers? eyes? birthmark? weight? ok?
haha... then after that, i think i doze off liao... until bb was pushed in, i saw him , immed i was awake then on BFing liao...
wah, the whole process was like a drama to me lor... luckily all is well now..me now stil in hosp on TBF... he is a natural latcher lor... latches really well and giving him full milk...
now day 3 liao, tomolo then can discharge becos im csec... wah, the wounds hurts like hell in the 1st day lor.. couldnt even walk and get down.. 2nd day onwards, then can walk abt.. now up and walkin also, but stil hurt abit la.. on the binder, prob it helps a little... doc say gonna put on for 1-2mths...
tummy stil a little bloated becos of the wind... csec can get jamu lady to do massage bor arh?
i was thinkin of engaging lei.. but must wait till my wound recovers ba... think at least 2 weeeks then wont hurt? anyone there can advise? and my menses like a bit nia.. nt so heavy as 1st 2 days .... hw long wil it be flowin arh.... cos im on TBF...
btw, my baby weight is 3230.. length 48cm..
so contented with his weight as my doc est ard 2.7-2.8kg nia.. cos im small size and my tummy wasnt big.. moreover my weight gain was less than 15kg..