morning all.
hippo,
wah.. 2 maids? very siong leh n sure got lots of "conflicts". i did consider 2 maids since i got preg with #3 but the tot of handling "politics" at home too, puts me off.
joanne,
sometimes kids grow up at different stages. if therapist says no issue, den dun worri too much. My #2 doesnt want to talk even tho those ard his age has been saying words. but at times he will blurt out words tat surprise me, eg, last sun he blurt out "diesel" while holding on to the diesel engine tat i bot for #1.
pups,
I am a mother of 2 super active monkeys who climb up n down the sofa, table n jump down! i m currently preg with #3. pls dun ask me how come i hv the courage to hv #3 haha. mayb cos i long for a gal? tt's y try the last time? my hb all the while wanted 3 kids, so this is the 3rd n last preg i will go thro. am lucky in the sense tat i have my PILs + my maid to help look aft my monkeys. but then, life is not so simple. when i first deliver my #1, my MIL wanted to distance mother n son! den immed aft i deliver, i have gall stones attack which required immed surgery! i dragged the surgery to few days aft my son's full month. my 1st maid at that time played politics in my hse. when my ILs are at home, she is a super good gal. but behind their back, she even tried ordering me to do things! well well, who is the boss??!! she loved to bring my son to the room n kept telling him "mummy no good" faint right? i heard tat. i quarrelled with hb so many times that he finally gave in n sent her back to her home country! immed aft tat, the house became "quiet".
for the 2nd preg i have pre-clampsia n on the day of delivery my BP was 180/100! had to have an emergency c-sec. i was crying all the way.
for this preg, i m super worried cos of 1) age, 2) previous pre-clampsia history 3)#2 not growing in my tummy the last few weeks n 2nd opinion gynae say to note if my #3 will have the same thing or not. but i never wanted to give up this baby. even tho my MS lasted fr 6pm - 6am (no food by mouth, not even water), n i do have occassion tots "y m i so stupid n get preg??", but i keep scolding myself. my darling is innocent. is not tat he/she wanted to come to this world. We brot him/her to this world. he/she has the rights to see the world while i have to protect him/her forever especially when in my tummy! so i told myself, worse case, let my coy sue me for not being able to perform my work. haha worse case, go gynae n get BED REST! oh ya, not forgetting the part that i have boss who demand a year of statistics within 2-3 days! i have staff who chit chat too much n cannot finish work, end up i have to do it for them??!! yet i still come into forum to complain, to relax, to joke ard
this is life! take things at a time n dun wori too much!
