vodkarib & other bottle-strike mummies >> hmm..i didn't want to write much abt this as my battles with my own has been ongoing since week 5, and have yet to find a sure-fire solution...you can check my posts abt that (around Nov 10). like you, i did give the occasional bottle and the refusal of bottles came abt really suddenly..yes, u'd feel the fear esp if u realise that you might have to be stuck to the baby like a third arm...
first of all, pls don't think that your baby is being naughty etc by gg on such a strike..it is really a very normal reaction - they are indicating their preference for your breast. indeed, preferences can come on at any time..even bbs who are known to have adapted well and able to switch with apparent ease between bottle and breast could suddenly display a peculiar and definite preference for one (usually the breast). this was something i learnt after speaking to the PDs, the lactation consultant and meeting mummies of 1 and even 3 yo who still demand to be completely latched.
in any case, you can try many methods..i list them here. i have varying success with each but i think since each bb is different- who knows? you might find one that suits you...
1) Let someone do the feeds. Audrey does "allow" strangers to feed her at times (again, not 100%) but it's worth a try. One feed down with the bottle is one success.
2) Try feeding her in a position other than the cradle hold or your usual bfg position. I've sat her facing me; sat her facing out, laid her on the bed (no one's holding her) and so on. key is not to mimic your usual feeding position..
3) Use Tommee Tippee..we all have Astro to thank for this. This is by far, the most successful teat I've used. (vodkarib, not to pour cold water but NUK has not worked - not even once. If you wanna, I can give you my unused NUK bottle/teat and you can try. Doesn't matter latex/silicon etc...) Reason it works is that it really resembles the human breast/nipple function and I can see why when I observe closely, the way she treats this bottle - really like the breast! Avent says their bottles allow ease of switching between bottles and breast..so far, I found it doesn't work (the teat isn't as good as TT in imitating the breast)..and it leaks and leaks!! So if I were you, don't waste time..just go for Tommee Tippee. Mums and Babes are having their 50% disc still (at tampines 1)..so go and get the normal bottle..i am sure u won't be disappointed..hehe..
4) If your baby is taking the pacifier, you can try the bait and switch. I deliberately introduced the pacifier to help me out with this aspect. For one week, she went along with this tactic. Just three days ago, she has decided she had enough with my monkeying around and rejected the pacifier outright.
5) Trying to force feed the baby with bottles will only escalate the tension/fear = greater reluctance on the babe's part to go along with bottle feeds. The minute the baby protests, stop whatever you are trying to do, place her down and walk out of the room. When she cries for a feed (the crying is different), return and try again. You've to be really patient and do this many, many, many times..eventually, the baby WILL take the feed (too hungry) but that's usually hours away. My experience was a hunger strike for an entire day, many MLs of milk wasted, fraying nerves..it's tough but can and have to be done. (erm..those on the sears, baby whisperer etc would not agree..but i've done this as a modified cry-it-out thing.) by far, it is this technique that has somewhat broken her resistance to bottle-feeding the most and nearly drove me nuts..and i consider it well-worth the effort. but it still isn't 100%...
6) Try dream-feeding. Apparently this works. For my baby unfortunately, her lips are sealed shut when she sleeps so I have not been able to verify this. But no harm trying..
so..overall, it will be an uphill battle. be ready that it won't be that easy a prb to resolve. but try not to despair and hopefully, things will ease up..and u'd find the balance. for some days, my baby would refuse to feed till i am home..if she would only have it that way, just too bad. but when she does feed, it'd be a massive, clustered feeding...haiz! there's plenty more to share, but i shan't bore everyone. this has been ongoing for me every single day..some days i laugh, other days i just wanna tear my hair out!
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