flower
my package includes unlimited 3/4d scans, hope today i can get a glimpse of my lil bub's 3d face cos the first time i got for my gal was when she was abt 18 wks. she looked like alien!
my gynae's nurses are same like girly's. can recognise you by name and can even recognise your voice over the phone. nothing is too small a matter for them. i hv heard of very good gynaes who have very nasty nurses too. not very good experience. in my opinion, the gynaes and his clinic assistants shld work hand in hand well.
but dun get too upset ok. was she recommended to u by anyone? if yes, then there must be some good points abt her. most gynaes r generally nice but when they have many cases that day, they v rush and fluttered and if u happen to be there at wrong time wrong place, u kena lor! i know not fair but at times we r at their "mercy" esp if u have ppaid for package. i hope u will have better experiences with her after this cos i dun think u can refund ur package right? if u really feel so uncomfy, i think b4 u r due u can go to another gynae and have a last scan by the new gynae so he can have ur history then be delivered by the new gynae lor. this is possible. but provided that ur baby not tha rush rush kind who wanna come out early than u expected ah! stay positive ok.
how is ur back ache?
crystalz
haha... yah lah when need to do then need to do lor. be in do in daytime, in another room, in toilet, on the same bed, on the floor all can be done hor haha... as long as the kid sharing the room not too big lah. big already pai say then must be like girly, go to her "tou qing" room~! wah like so lomantic! if u see hub signalling u there means u know whats gonna happen next ah! haha...
yah shelled is one cool mom. so bold!! the pic where everybody shave their head was very nice. whole family of cool baldies hehe, even lil josh! moreover u doing it for good cause right?
MILKYWAY
eh mine the other way round leh. when i get hub to place his hand on my tummy, my lil bub will stop moving! it was like that also with my other preg. so amazing when i think they know the warmth of mommy's hand.
princess
i can emphatise with your situation. cant stand in laws who only use mouth ask u give birth but no action hor. i was blessed with a good mil in this sense cos she would travel all the way from amk to east coast with her freshly bought groceries for my mom to cook. my mom live in with me during confinement to help.
since its ur first confinement, u will feel a lil "mang zhang" but as SHELLED said lor, time will pass. whats most impt is u stay positive ok cos its very easy to get post natal blues during confinement esp its ur first and u got noone to help u.
ur hub looks like the very caring and hands on type. im sure he will love to help u. maybe u can soak ur clothes and baby's clothes in the daytime and evening get him to wash for u?
as for meals, dun compromise ok cos we really need to bu our bodies after delivery. eat well becos u need the energy for it. our bodies tend to be weaker after delivery. dun skip meals or cut one meal at least during confinement. also try not to eat those packed foods also ya? if confinement catering also cost too much, then can ask ur mom to cook more for one whole day lor. dun worry ok. everything can be settled. must enjoy pregnancy cos when the baby is out, life will change totally!
i been posting in the mornings cos hub been sending the boys for me to school every morn recently. the bliss of pregnancy lor
so i settle their bentos, see them off then i can post here! gg to see gynae at 9am.
