Jacqueline, congrats!
i'm not sure if it's possible to find confinement lady where u are, but when I was in LA, it was quite common among the Chinese community there. the cost is about US$3000 though.
I'm now in the UK, am expecting #2 also. But dunno whether it's girl or boy yet cos here, they don't scan every month. makes the pregnancy a little less exciting.
when r u due?
Donkeymani, u can wear the infant seat belt over the sling. that's what i did, so don't have to take baby out of the sling. hope that helps for baby to keep sleeping...