mashy: yeah totally agree.. it alldepends on the kid.. I was from neighbourhood schools, i was really slow in pri school. Always 4th in class.. from the back. but when i went to Sec one i got a shock of my life when i realised i was number 4.. from the front! (not cos the rest of my class stupider than me.. haahh) Then over the years i realise, education in singapore is all about memory.. how much u can remember etc. I couldnt absorb much or remember much in pri and alot of it wasnt very hands on., but i know it was different when i got to sec school i could remember more cos it was a more hands on approach etc..
I had one church friend who sent her 4yr old daughter for so many enrichment classes. Swimming, ballet, tap, chinese, french (and she's pure chinese, no need for french at all.) even sent her for interpersonal classes and etiquette classes!!!
I really pity the kid leh, cos each time i see her she's on a way to a class... now she's a teenager/ almost young adult.. i wonder if she remembers what went on in her childhood, or did she merely remember the classes she had to go for when she was a child..
the intention of the parent is good,but when i think about them missing out on their childhood which will probably be the most carefree/ stress free periods of their life, quite sad leh