sbb,
Do u mean when baby cry, just let them cry, no need give water or wat. Unless they cough, etc? Been telling my maid that but the minute she cries, my maid will wake up to pat. Been like that for weeks until she doesn't have enough sleep. I kept telling her no need to touch baby, but she still pats. I told her just look can already, if nothing dun do anything. Maybe I should just take over and look after her la. Wish she didn't keep on patting, now habit liao. Dun pat she will wake up. Either pat or give water. She says give water baby stops crying. IMO, if cry every hour means hungry. But if I fed her milk at 2am, 3am cry means not hungry, but something else. But what's the something else? That is the thing that baffles me.