Aarrgghhh ... i can't sleep ... been awake the whole nite till now. Alot of things going on in my mind, dunno how to handle
weishy
I din ask her, and i din bother to ask becos ultimately, i'm not going to give in to her. Why? Becos that's not the 1st time liao. Previously i've got several lush yellow palm and u know what she did? She twist the branches so that they are hanging there, & died eventually.
I understand wat u mean ... that we still gotta respect them as elder even though they'r a bitch. I had that thinking too and in the past when things weren't so bad, i was still a dutiful DIL. I daren't say filial but i always try to do wat i can, or wat i should as a DIL. But when push comes to shove, i think i have to stand up for my own rights, as half the owner of this house, and as a human being, in order to preserve my sanity. Nobody deserved to be treated the way she treated me.
It's all very easy to say just forget the whole thing, just ignore her, just treat her as bullshitting etc. But no one can really understand how we, the bullied DILs feel without going thru the same thing. But of cos, i hope no one goes thru wat i went thru.
Wah .... i feel so much better after blabbering here. Really thankful to have this forum, and all your listening ears
But hmmm .... i still can't sleep.
