mashybrainz
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regg
wow, shiok leh, enjoy your freedom!
Great great, can't wait to see it.
wow, shiok leh, enjoy your freedom!
Great great, can't wait to see it.
(2009/08) August 2009 MTBs
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mashybrainz
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regg
u need the iron at least leh. Coz u'll lose blood when u deliver. I had my iron test recently and i failed. So now have to take diligently.
u need the iron at least leh. Coz u'll lose blood when u deliver. I had my iron test recently and i failed. So now have to take diligently.
mashy, heh i already eating every 3 hrly cos i cant eat v much each time cos v bloated.
piggytoh, i agree with u.. last time i also ate normally.. didnt put on wt but bb gained wt. this time bb not gaining wt despite my wt gain cos the nutrients just not getting thru to him because the bld flow no gd. and the thing is there is NOTHING i can do! even eating more wont really help also
irene, ur boy cosleeping with u in ur room now? my girl was co-sleeping with us all the while - her cot is joined to our bed. last night just shifted her to my MIL's room to sleep on the floor and she didnt sleep well at all. but no choice leh.. cant possibly let #1 and 2 sleep in the same room at the beginning cos #2 will def wake #1 with the crying..
piggytoh, i agree with u.. last time i also ate normally.. didnt put on wt but bb gained wt. this time bb not gaining wt despite my wt gain cos the nutrients just not getting thru to him because the bld flow no gd. and the thing is there is NOTHING i can do! even eating more wont really help also
irene, ur boy cosleeping with u in ur room now? my girl was co-sleeping with us all the while - her cot is joined to our bed. last night just shifted her to my MIL's room to sleep on the floor and she didnt sleep well at all. but no choice leh.. cant possibly let #1 and 2 sleep in the same room at the beginning cos #2 will def wake #1 with the crying..
Irene, I wish I can take your advice. My boss initially told me that the last tri will be very tiring for me so will try to arrange less work for me. Who knows, when I'm in my last tri, there's a proj with tight deadline. Having more stress now man.. Damn sianz of working here...
piggy, irene, mashy,
hm.. actually 2 mths back i already take both only alternate day leh, i find my gynae 'over feed' me with all the vit but i dint stop for BP, iron n calcium..oh ya..my gum bleed very very badly now! can bleed till almost 1 tissue full of blood!
ok i take fish oil again.. back to alternate day ba hehe
hm..10am, waiting for my new maid to come
hm.. actually 2 mths back i already take both only alternate day leh, i find my gynae 'over feed' me with all the vit but i dint stop for BP, iron n calcium..oh ya..my gum bleed very very badly now! can bleed till almost 1 tissue full of blood!
ok i take fish oil again.. back to alternate day ba hehe
hm..10am, waiting for my new maid to come
Jules, yes...my no.1's cot is joined to our bed now. And he has to sleep with me next to him. Need to get daddy to start sleeping with him soon liao so that next time I can settle no.2 while daddy settles no.1.
I was thinking easier to let no.2 sleep elsewhere since no.1 has a habit already. Yah, if put both together hor, think all no need to sleep liao!
I was thinking easier to let no.2 sleep elsewhere since no.1 has a habit already. Yah, if put both together hor, think all no need to sleep liao!
piggytoh, thanks for the reassuring words
keeping fingers crossed till next checkup! but a bit hard to rest at home cos still got an active #1 running ard and wanting my attn!!
irene, haha our sleep dilemmas are the same! my girl also same.. must sleep glued to my side. and my hb cant settle her at all cos he doesnt take care of her much, just plays with her. if he tries to pat her back to sleep, and 'soothe' her with his voice, she will end up waking up and becoming more upset cos she realised it's actually him and not me! headache ah..
irene, haha our sleep dilemmas are the same! my girl also same.. must sleep glued to my side. and my hb cant settle her at all cos he doesnt take care of her much, just plays with her. if he tries to pat her back to sleep, and 'soothe' her with his voice, she will end up waking up and becoming more upset cos she realised it's actually him and not me! headache ah..
Jules, hahaha...yes, my boy will look for me the moment he open his eyes. If I am not around, he will call for me and start crying.
But sometimes when I am out for dinner with friends, he is ok with daddy sleeping with him.
Same...daddy seldom look after my boy.
That's why I don't want to move my boy out of the room now and traumatise his sleeping pattern.
But sometimes when I am out for dinner with friends, he is ok with daddy sleeping with him.
Same...daddy seldom look after my boy.
That's why I don't want to move my boy out of the room now and traumatise his sleeping pattern.
morrning all
PInk n bbmsking:me also go to DR Ananda
funny person as well as very chatty too 
.He's the chairman of the gynae association
Great to hear that ur bb is doing well
few more weeks to go
......if breech better c sec.....u dun wan more complications
Ladies seems like the gathering is a hit
may i suggest another one in july......today??????nooooooooooo ........u guys choose la
weekdays/weekends
Venue:AqUAMARINE @ MARINA MANDARIN hotel
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
PInk n bbmsking:me also go to DR Ananda
.He's the chairman of the gynae association
Great to hear that ur bb is doing well
Ladies seems like the gathering is a hit
may i suggest another one in july......today??????nooooooooooo ........u guys choose la
Venue:AqUAMARINE @ MARINA MANDARIN hotel
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
mashybrainz
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irene
if u wanna let daddy sleep with #1, better start now. I've started long ago and now my boy only wants his daddy to sleep with him....
Jules
it just takes time. I'm the main caregiver, and my hb has to work too. But my boy is sticky to him like glue. If he's home, my boy will say 'mommy go sleep in the other room'.
piggy
hehe, i've been skipping my calcium.
if u wanna let daddy sleep with #1, better start now. I've started long ago and now my boy only wants his daddy to sleep with him....
Jules
it just takes time. I'm the main caregiver, and my hb has to work too. But my boy is sticky to him like glue. If he's home, my boy will say 'mommy go sleep in the other room'.
piggy
hehe, i've been skipping my calcium.
gathering - hey i'm on for lunch!! esp if it's 1 for 1!!
ok for any weekday!
piggytoh, ya lor.. gotta try to rest more. most impt is ensure that ILs understand i am resting.. not slacking away from my responsibilities as a mum!!
irene, i also agree lor.. didnt want to traumatise my girl but no choice - either shift girl to my IL's room, or put #2 in the living room where he will disrupt everyone's sleep.. after all i'm sure my ILs wld rather look after my girl than a newborn baby who will cry the WHOLE night and i dun have CL also leh.. and not keen for maid to sleep with bb/my girl.
piggytoh, ya lor.. gotta try to rest more. most impt is ensure that ILs understand i am resting.. not slacking away from my responsibilities as a mum!!
irene, i also agree lor.. didnt want to traumatise my girl but no choice - either shift girl to my IL's room, or put #2 in the living room where he will disrupt everyone's sleep.. after all i'm sure my ILs wld rather look after my girl than a newborn baby who will cry the WHOLE night
and i dun have CL also leh.. and not keen for maid to sleep with bb/my girl.mashybrainz
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jules/irene
perhaps u should start delegating more stuff to daddy since #2 is coming. When my hb's home, i totally wash my hands off. He'll feed him, bathe with him, play with him, change him to his pjs etc. A bit sad sometimes when my boy rejects me, but at least i know it'll be easier on me when #2 comes.
perhaps u should start delegating more stuff to daddy since #2 is coming. When my hb's home, i totally wash my hands off. He'll feed him, bathe with him, play with him, change him to his pjs etc. A bit sad sometimes when my boy rejects me, but at least i know it'll be easier on me when #2 comes.
mystifiedjan
Active Member
morning mummy..
i'm so sorry that i wasn't able to attend the dinner ytd..
my hubby's colleague suspected of H1N1 den onli send to CDC yesterday mrning thus afraid that I MIGHT pass the virus (if i kanna) so my hubby ask me to go home immediately!!!
luckily that guy is ok...
sad that i miss the outin..
i'm so sorry that i wasn't able to attend the dinner ytd..
my hubby's colleague suspected of H1N1 den onli send to CDC yesterday mrning thus afraid that I MIGHT pass the virus (if i kanna) so my hubby ask me to go home immediately!!!
sad that i miss the outin..
Mashy, I already told daddy my plan liao. But this daddy tells me he still need to travel so I am very afraid when he travels, it will break the momentum.
I think I need to get daddy to develop the good habit of bathing earlier so he can go to bed with my boy clean clean.
Its my boy who always says 'don't want daddy' at night.
I think I need to get daddy to develop the good habit of bathing earlier so he can go to bed with my boy clean clean.
Its my boy who always says 'don't want daddy' at night.
mashy, sad to say, my girl doesnt like her father v much.. maybe cos he's always working and comes back v v late. and when he does spend time with her, its to disturb her and play with her as a toy, not play WITH her.
supplements - oops i'm the laziest.. i dun take any supplements at all..
supplements - oops i'm the laziest.. i dun take any supplements at all..
mashybrainz
New Member
piggy
hehe, i don't like milk for this preg. But i've been taking ice cream. Is that counted?
hehe, i don't like milk for this preg. But i've been taking ice cream. Is that counted?
Venue:AqUAMARINE @ MARINA MANDARIN hotel
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1
weishy(anyday)
JUles(weekday)
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1
weishy(anyday)
JUles(weekday)
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
Venue:AqUAMARINE @ MARINA MANDARIN hotel
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1
weishy(anyday)
JUles(weekday)
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1
weishy(anyday)
JUles(weekday)
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
mashybrainz
New Member
irene/jules
actually it's a good habit to bathe the moment your hb comes home. It's to wash off all the virus that he picked up along the way home too. I find that my family gets sick less often after we adopted the 'bathe and wash up after coming home' policy.
If travel then can't be helped, but have to let your boy know that if daddy's home, daddy's in charge of him. My boy also didn't want daddy at night last time. I used to be the one sleeping with him until i lost part of my hearing with all the lack of sleep. Then daddy took over. Now it's daddy this and daddy that.
A suggestion:
maybe can draft a schedule for them? My hb drew up a sch recently on what to do each night. So the two of them will look at the timetable daily and see what to do next. Oh, my hb also reads to my boy before he sleeps. It helps with the bonding too.
actually it's a good habit to bathe the moment your hb comes home. It's to wash off all the virus that he picked up along the way home too. I find that my family gets sick less often after we adopted the 'bathe and wash up after coming home' policy.
If travel then can't be helped, but have to let your boy know that if daddy's home, daddy's in charge of him. My boy also didn't want daddy at night last time. I used to be the one sleeping with him until i lost part of my hearing with all the lack of sleep. Then daddy took over. Now it's daddy this and daddy that.
A suggestion:
maybe can draft a schedule for them? My hb drew up a sch recently on what to do each night. So the two of them will look at the timetable daily and see what to do next. Oh, my hb also reads to my boy before he sleeps. It helps with the bonding too.
mashybrainz
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jules
maybe u should assign him a responsibility then. Sometimes they're hands-off coz we don't allow them to do it. When they do it, we are too fussy and kept saying cannot do this, must do that. If u close 1 eye, let him do things the way he want to, then it'll be better.
All along i've expected my hb to help out. There's no such thing as sit there and idle or do his own things. hehe.
Perhaps for a start, get him to bathe with your #1? I think it's a great bonding opportunity. My boy loves bathing with his daddy. They'll do silly things like blow bubbles, bathe the rubber duckies and stuff.
maybe u should assign him a responsibility then. Sometimes they're hands-off coz we don't allow them to do it. When they do it, we are too fussy and kept saying cannot do this, must do that. If u close 1 eye, let him do things the way he want to, then it'll be better.
All along i've expected my hb to help out. There's no such thing as sit there and idle or do his own things. hehe.
Perhaps for a start, get him to bathe with your #1? I think it's a great bonding opportunity. My boy loves bathing with his daddy. They'll do silly things like blow bubbles, bathe the rubber duckies and stuff.
mashybrainz
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irene
then get him to bathe your boy. Then he won't have a choice. After all, it's better as your son gets older for him to bathe with daddy than mummy.
then get him to bathe your boy. Then he won't have a choice.
After all, it's better as your son gets older for him to bathe with daddy than mummy.Venue:AqUAMARINE @ MARINA MANDARIN hotel
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1 $38+++(UOB card holders anybody has???)
weishy(anyday)
JUles(weekday)
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
Date ~ 6th till 10th???cos some may really pop early man
Lunch ~ 1 for 1 $38+++(UOB card holders anybody has???)
weishy(anyday)
JUles(weekday)
Dinner ~ 20% off
Dunno which card hv % too...will chk it out
Pls do PM me ur details this time and give ample time for cancellations tks alot
mashy, my hb has only bathed my girl 3 times. and after each session, my girl gets a phobia of bath time that takes abt 2-3 wks to overcome!! faint..anyway a bit hard cos my hb goes to work at 7plus in the morning and comes home only at 11pm.. by which time my girl has long gone to sleep..
as for changing diapers etc.. he got sprayed on the face with my girl's projectile shit when she was abt 1 mth old.. after that he never wanted to change the diapers again
hoping that i can get him to be more hands on with #2 this time ard.. since its a boy ma! no excuse!
as for changing diapers etc.. he got sprayed on the face with my girl's projectile shit when she was abt 1 mth old.. after that he never wanted to change the diapers again
hoping that i can get him to be more hands on with #2 this time ard.. since its a boy ma! no excuse!
mashybrainz
New Member
jules
so jia lut, have phobia? wow, his working hrs are so long. Maybe he should consider changing his job. job is not everything. When he's gone, they can always replace him. Daddy/hb can never be replaced.
A forum mummy who's gal is born same time as my #1, sadly became a widow late last yr. Her hb just dropped dead suddenly due to advanced liver cancer. His family is devastated by it. In life, we need to see what's important. Is the job really that important? That's what i always tell my hb. Money is 'shen wai wu'. Job is secondary. He should always place family first.
BTW, my hb also got sprayed by my boy's poo & pee before. He even had to use his fingers to dig out his poo from the ass. Oh c'mon, just becoz of 1 memorable experience, u can't stop doing it right? It's just like when you're working and u got 'sprayed with shit' by the boss, u still continue working. U don't surrender.
so jia lut, have phobia? wow, his working hrs are so long. Maybe he should consider changing his job. job is not everything. When he's gone, they can always replace him. Daddy/hb can never be replaced.
A forum mummy who's gal is born same time as my #1, sadly became a widow late last yr. Her hb just dropped dead suddenly due to advanced liver cancer. His family is devastated by it. In life, we need to see what's important. Is the job really that important? That's what i always tell my hb. Money is 'shen wai wu'. Job is secondary. He should always place family first.
BTW, my hb also got sprayed by my boy's poo & pee before. He even had to use his fingers to dig out his poo from the ass. Oh c'mon, just becoz of 1 memorable experience, u can't stop doing it right? It's just like when you're working and u got 'sprayed with shit' by the boss, u still continue working. U don't surrender.
Jules:wah ur girl also very "li hai" le kekekkekek so far my hubby no complains with doing all those.....sometimes he washes teh bottles etc for my helper if we do come back late.....
think if we dun help she may hv to sleep at 11 ++++ loooooo better she rest more than falls sick etc ma
RE:daddy help
good that mummies with boys can have the daddy to bath with the boys...so envy...
for me,
like mashy...
i also wash my hands off ...
for feeding and looking after her...
except to washing up my ger and sleeping time...
ah lao, only help out last few mths...
cos complaint to him that i am tired and
my gynae told/drill him that i can't carry my ger long as i have achings...
and he now wake up to do FM if my ger is fussing for midnite feed...
but end up i still need do the feeding/coaxing my ger to drink her milk...
good that mummies with boys can have the daddy to bath with the boys...so envy...
for me,
like mashy...
i also wash my hands off ...
for feeding and looking after her...
except to washing up my ger and sleeping time...
ah lao, only help out last few mths...
cos complaint to him that i am tired and
my gynae told/drill him that i can't carry my ger long as i have achings...
and he now wake up to do FM if my ger is fussing for midnite feed...
but end up i still need do the feeding/coaxing my ger to drink her milk...
mashybrainz
New Member
cloudme
if gal gal, can get hb to read books, play with her, feed her etc lor. Play barbie dolls together? hahaha.
if gal gal, can get hb to read books, play with her, feed her etc lor. Play barbie dolls together? hahaha.
mashybrainz
New Member
okie, time to rest for me. so tired again...
Regg:i also take the pills same like urs le.....
U free u let me know la best b4 10th can?
MAshy:think havign boys higher chance of spraying le hehehhehehhe.must get myself prepared this time.
ya when they hv constipation hv tohelp me "dig" poop out ......ya family 1st to me too
U free u let me know la best b4 10th can?
MAshy:think havign boys higher chance of spraying le hehehhehehhe.must get myself prepared this time.
ya when they hv constipation hv tohelp me "dig" poop out ......ya family 1st to me too
mashy,
my ah lao only read her book if i tell him to...or my ger request her story book
otherwise he just teach the wording/pictures on those wall charts loh...
yup he will feed her, bring her walk walk(gai gai---my ger will request at a fixed time everyday)
play dolls...my ger only coming 15mths leh...
haven't intro dolls except teddy bear bears...
its the bathing part that i envy...
cos ger ger, can't get a guy to bathe her...
hb is a guy afterall mah...
my ah lao only read her book if i tell him to...or my ger request her story book
otherwise he just teach the wording/pictures on those wall charts loh...
yup he will feed her, bring her walk walk(gai gai---my ger will request at a fixed time everyday)
play dolls...my ger only coming 15mths leh...
haven't intro dolls except teddy bear bears...
its the bathing part that i envy...
cos ger ger, can't get a guy to bathe her...
hb is a guy afterall mah...