after reading about evil mils today...
I'm glad that I'm not staying in SG, so no need to face the music all the time. When I'm back in SG, I insisted tt i'll stay with my mum, so dh will have to go stay with ILs. (yes, we will stay separately!)
Actually, my ILs didnt call or ask abt me though I'm all alone in Beijing now for the past mth. (they dont want to pay for IDD). I'm already telling myself that if they don't show concern when I'm preggie, then they also cannot comment on how I take care of bb next time