Re: Car seat
Actually i think it's better to get early than later. Coz you'll still need the car seat when bring bb home. Don't tell me that you're going to carry on the arms. Do u know that a lot of bb die on their way home becoz of car accidents without car seats? So, play safe. Get a car seat.
Also, the reason why I say get a car seat early is so that your bb will get used to sitting in one early. When they sit in one from birth, they won't question why they should and won't cry as much to get out. Now that my boy is 3 yrs old, he had never given me any prob that he refused to be buckled down. He will even remind us to wear our seat belts when we go out.
Yes, bb will need rear facing car seats. U can either get a convertible (from birth till 4yrs & above type) or an infant carrier car seat.
Convertible may be a bit uncomfy coz it's not totally flat down. But bb won't complain, it's just the parents who will find it an eye sore.
Or u can put your bb in an infant carrier car seat. This type u can carry your bb in the car seat wherever u go, and don't have to wake your bb up.
Always buckle your children. Never compromise their safety. I've seen so many parents & grandparents just hand carry the babies and young children jumping ard in the car. It's so dangerous. U never know when an accident will occur. You may be careful, but others won't. So don't do things that you will regret later. I've known other pp's ILs & parents pressure them to carry their kids instead of putting them in a car seat. I will never allow that to happen. If anything happens, who's going to return the child back to you. It's your own child and you're ultimately responsible for their safety.