shirley, thats what i told my MIL also.. and my hb echoed me. but the problem is hor, altho the babies wont die without intake for 3 days, but they will still feel hungry, and cry nonstop!! right? or was it my girl like that only? what to do in that case?
i also stay with ILs since marriage. even tho my ILs very easy to live with, usu i will go thru my hb whenever i have some 'feedback' abt how my girl is being taken care of. or else its not so nice ma. so my hb will tell his mum that maybe she shldn do this or that etc.. and it doesnt seem like it comes from me altho it obviously seems like something i will be fussy over!
fatbobo, my boss gives me the morning or afternoon off as unrecorded leave. so i dont use AL or mc.