(2009/08) August 2009 MTBs
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mashybrainz
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tas
hahah, no lah, they're tiny tyres for trains.
hahah, no lah, they're tiny tyres for trains.
mashybrainz
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pink
then stay at your mom's definitely better.
1 room for u & hb, 1 room for mom, 1 room for 2 maids & 1 room for your bb. It'll be more comfy for your mom too.
But since your hb is only child, u may need to ask your ILs to sound them out first. Some ILs are very particular abt such things.
The way i see it, even if your mom should shift over to your place now, when u have #2, you will need to shift back to her place coz no space. Esp if your #1 & #2 diff sex.
then stay at your mom's definitely better.
1 room for u & hb, 1 room for mom, 1 room for 2 maids & 1 room for your bb. It'll be more comfy for your mom too.
But since your hb is only child, u may need to ask your ILs to sound them out first. Some ILs are very particular abt such things.
The way i see it, even if your mom should shift over to your place now, when u have #2, you will need to shift back to her place coz no space. Esp if your #1 & #2 diff sex.
Hello regg
I also woke up with back pain but luckily it subside after a while.
Mashy
That's y I headache now.....dun know how to settle my mum. Want her to stay with me but I also hv to consider IL. My sis also same prob. So looks like mum hv to stay on her own for the time being.
I also woke up with back pain but luckily it subside after a while.
Mashy
That's y I headache now.....dun know how to settle my mum. Want her to stay with me but I also hv to consider IL. My sis also same prob. So looks like mum hv to stay on her own for the time being.
mashybrainz
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pink
At least she has a maid with her. Maybe just visit her more often?
Tas
haha, u will need to be more aquainted with boys' toys already. Your #2 boy right?
At least she has a maid with her. Maybe just visit her more often?
Tas
haha, u will need to be more aquainted with boys' toys already. Your #2 boy right?
mashybrainz
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pink
actually not so true anymore lah. A lot of parents now stay with their daughters. Like my parents stay with me. My bro stays with my SIL's parents. Anyway, this arrangement has less conflicts in the household too. But i wish that my bro will be more concerned abt my parents. He's like married off already.
If my ILs had insisted that my parents stay with my bro, sure jia lut. It's as good as pushing us into a corner.
actually not so true anymore lah. A lot of parents now stay with their daughters. Like my parents stay with me. My bro stays with my SIL's parents. Anyway, this arrangement has less conflicts in the household too. But i wish that my bro will be more concerned abt my parents. He's like married off already.
If my ILs had insisted that my parents stay with my bro, sure jia lut. It's as good as pushing us into a corner.
mashybrainz
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tas
haha, there's fun looking for boys' toys too lah.
pris
lucky u! I keep having to surf thru the japanese websites coz alot of stuff aren't sold in singapore.
haha, there's fun looking for boys' toys too lah.
pris
lucky u! I keep having to surf thru the japanese websites coz alot of stuff aren't sold in singapore.
pink, I am going to try pretty mama and go to Bugis stall you all mentioning.
mashy, haahaa, I rather have my mum stay with me than my mil. I have told dh, if mil comes to stay, she cannot bring into my place all her gods and ancestors, my place is for the Lord and not all her gods.
mashy, haahaa, I rather have my mum stay with me than my mil. I have told dh, if mil comes to stay, she cannot bring into my place all her gods and ancestors, my place is for the Lord and not all her gods.
My working hours till 6.30pm. By the time I reach home, it's almost 7.15. After shower & dinner, almost 8pm. So by the time I reach my mum place also around 8.30. But I will hv to make effort to hv at least one weekday dinner with my mum & weekends lor.
Mashy
Your living arrangements very ideal but too bad my dh is the only child.
Mashy
Your living arrangements very ideal but too bad my dh is the only child.
smurf_ling
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tasyln n pris
yah yah the vinegar pig trotters is the place where they sell paper wrapped chicken
yah yah the vinegar pig trotters is the place where they sell paper wrapped chicken
pink, http://www.pretty-mamas.blogspot.com/, dun know the quality though.
mashybrainz
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After reading the posts, i think i've reached this verdict.
All mothers are easier going on their Son-ILs but are tough on their DILs.
My grandma too. can tell that she treats the SILs so much better than her DILs. Always gossip abt her DILs.
All mothers are easier going on their Son-ILs but are tough on their DILs.
My grandma too. can tell that she treats the SILs so much better than her DILs. Always gossip abt her DILs.
smurf_ling
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baby showers
how abt that? can we go???
someone please tell me we cannot go kkekeke
i'm just trying to find excuses not to attend one tis sat..
how abt that? can we go???
someone please tell me we cannot go kkekeke
i'm just trying to find excuses not to attend one tis sat..pris
i think ur mum is like mine... she does not gossip... but my relatives like to call n complain to her.. coz she is a good listener... even i call n complain to her at times... hahahaha
smurfy:
some bb are pantang de... so it really depends on u... i think even if dun go, must send a gift...
tat time i supposedly have to stay off red/white matters, i cannot even give angbao coz of pantang.. my HB is super pantang kind.. so faint ar..
i think ur mum is like mine... she does not gossip... but my relatives like to call n complain to her.. coz she is a good listener... even i call n complain to her at times... hahahaha
smurfy:
some bb are pantang de... so it really depends on u... i think even if dun go, must send a gift...
tat time i supposedly have to stay off red/white matters, i cannot even give angbao coz of pantang.. my HB is super pantang kind.. so faint ar..
haio all.. ohhhh my gosh! =_________=
so many archives... hee..tink i past on reading them today. lalala~
hw everyone doing? hope all are well. cheers, it's Friday.
RE: MIL vs SIL / DIL
hmmmm.. my guess prolly to some 老人家, daugther married to 'SIL', they like hv half-a-son mah..n they oso wan SIL to treat daughter better...so they usually more chin chai n treat SIL nicer. daugther married 'out' oso try not to control so much le.
wheras, 'DIL' married into family..like their son hfta feed another person..n prolly they might be wary of DIL snatching away their position in son's heart & mind..n watever. so wana show some action action oso..n bcm unreasonable bah.
haha..
sighz.. my in-laws (especially the MIL) super sticky to my hb oso de.. my hb has a younger sis, but.... sigh sigh sigh!
so many archives... hee..tink i past on reading them today. lalala~
hw everyone doing? hope all are well. cheers, it's Friday.
RE: MIL vs SIL / DIL
hmmmm.. my guess prolly to some 老人家, daugther married to 'SIL', they like hv half-a-son mah..n they oso wan SIL to treat daughter better...so they usually more chin chai n treat SIL nicer. daugther married 'out' oso try not to control so much le.
wheras, 'DIL' married into family..like their son hfta feed another person..n prolly they might be wary of DIL snatching away their position in son's heart & mind..n watever. so wana show some action action oso..n bcm unreasonable bah.
haha..
sighz.. my in-laws (especially the MIL) super sticky to my hb oso de.. my hb has a younger sis, but.... sigh sigh sigh!
pris
haha... my mum ar... entertains my father's sis n sil, her own family side, her cousins, her colleagues... n even our neighbours... list goes on... sometimes i call her up n phone is engaged n she dun answer hp, i know she's lending her ears to someone again...
pink
at least ur bro is doing sth... n not giving in to his wife...
haha... my mum ar... entertains my father's sis n sil, her own family side, her cousins, her colleagues... n even our neighbours... list goes on... sometimes i call her up n phone is engaged n she dun answer hp, i know she's lending her ears to someone again...
pink
at least ur bro is doing sth... n not giving in to his wife...
bahaha.. ya.. i better not try today.. or better not do it NOW. haha. i oni read frm top of this page.. already abit hin le.
haha.. last nite aft i learned that FIL flew back (last evng).. i quickly tell my hb i feel like hvg peranakan food for dinr tonite. (i noe they not so keen on peranakan food de).. n plus, i already state wat i wana eat le..if say they call us for dinr agn.. it's either peranakan (they pay) or they eat themselves! haha.
there was once.. i abit upset. hb said his parents asked wana hv dinr tog or not.. den i said i feel like si zup beef hor fan. then my hb like tink tink abit.. said his father dun eat..n ask them wat they wana eat first lor. wah lao.. i duno why dat day i like ok lor! kaoz, after i tink tink.. NB, is i preggy hv cravings or wat! everytime they call the shot wat to eat.. i cannot say wat i wan de meh?!?
haha.. last nite aft i learned that FIL flew back (last evng).. i quickly tell my hb i feel like hvg peranakan food for dinr tonite. (i noe they not so keen on peranakan food de).. n plus, i already state wat i wana eat le..if say they call us for dinr agn.. it's either peranakan (they pay) or they eat themselves! haha.
there was once.. i abit upset. hb said his parents asked wana hv dinr tog or not.. den i said i feel like si zup beef hor fan. then my hb like tink tink abit.. said his father dun eat..n ask them wat they wana eat first lor. wah lao.. i duno why dat day i like ok lor! kaoz, after i tink tink.. NB, is i preggy hv cravings or wat! everytime they call the shot wat to eat.. i cannot say wat i wan de meh?!?
pink, at least your brother cares about your mum, try to talk to your mum too. Everything got two sides also.
For me, I will visit my mil no matter how much I dont like but be an good examples for my boys. I always remind myself, mil is an adopted child so she dun really understand love.
For me, I will visit my mil no matter how much I dont like but be an good examples for my boys. I always remind myself, mil is an adopted child so she dun really understand love.