Cassey, i worried high bump means baby's head is up. but anyway she got 6 weeks to turn..turn soon baby. i can imagine head down cant be so comfy for her cos like doing headstand for weeks! hehe
now that my bump is bigger, my boobs and bum less obvious..I LOIKE!
11_beans, infantcare in my personal opinion like a lot of germs..so babies in that environment must get a lot of immunity. esp against pneumococcal..cos babies easily fall sick so when you expose them to that kind of environment they are more prone to falling sick. just what i think only, not sure if true or not. on the other hand, the earlier we expose them to germs, the earlier their body will build immunity against it, just that it's a risk i dont want to take. i see my cats sick already i so heart pain, if my own baby i think i'll tear my heart out. as for maids, i dont trust a stranger in the house. and to live with another woman in the same house as my husband and having her do domestic things, im not comfy with the thought - never have been, and maybe never will. some more babies cannot talk so if something goes wrong we also wont know. again, just my personal opinion. but male stay-in nanny i don't mind hehe..cos baby won't confuse him as mummy!
btw, how much is infantcare these days? i heard like $1000+ right? then FTWM got subsidies..
for now, i also hope and pray every day that my mum will have change of heart and say she will take care of baby for me. even if for a few months. come january, i may have to take a big decision then she can decide whether to go back work or not.
audrey, take care..hope you're feeling better soon.