alfafa,
Ya, we have learnt this part about creating couple time since after the birth of #1. The good thing is our work place, though ultra far from where we stay, is near each other. So, we go to work and then home together. Time is the car is precious couple time where we get to catch up with each other. At night, I pump in the study room where hubby will be accessing his laptop. So, the presence is still there and we fen1 gong1 he2 zhuo4, as in after I finish pumping, I will prepare the milk for chilling, heating up ebm for baby and rinsihg the pump parts. He will wash up the pump parts whilst i dream feed the baby.
Talking about baby's gender. I had someone asking me if baby K is a girl or boy that day when I dressed her in a PINK PINAFORE. Boys wear pinafore one meh?!
Baby being assertive... well, mine is already showing her preference. When my dad shows her toy number one, she likes and she smiles. When my dad shows her toy number two, she doesn't like and she makes a face and fuss for it to be removed from her sight. 3 months old. woah.
Kopi.... When I got pregnant and kept to one cup of coffee a day, my 3pm kopi-kakis say they miss me a lot. Haha. We usually jio each other at 3pm for coffee. Usually just make our own coffee but will pop our heads into each other's cubicle enroute to the pantry.
Lipstar,
My hairdrop is very significant now also. I have not seen so much hair covering my sewer hole in the shower area after a single bath for a long time!
Asura,
My baby seems to have her moods too. All these while, I have been latching her direct but give her one bottle of ebm a day. She takes to the bottle ok but twice so far, she rejected the bottle and cried blue murder until I pop my nips into her mouth.