carriers...bm...toys...lessons for bbs etc...
itz common for momz to compare but @ e end of e day, i guess itz dad n mom tat bb really wanz...lez not b confused over giving them e best based on wat we can afford...for me, im a firm believer of buying stuff minimally...fine w brandless stuff...don like to b pressurized over wat my child has as compared w others...
still we do not live on one man's island, so bound to b affected as we see how other momz provide for their bbs...idaar, itz natural to feel inadequate but i believe deep down, ur bb n kids jus contented to hav u n dad dad ard...kids only desire material stuff when they face pressure frm their frienz or they equate material goods for love frm parents...
diapers...fitti is one of e cheapest brands ard but i noticed my bb has red marks ard e area of e elastic band...mayb i dunno how to use but i still prefer pampers...mamypoko not bad too... I use pampers in e day/ mamy poko for nite...
pups...u may seriously wan to consider asking someone to help u w no. 1...otherwise ur care for no. 2 will b compromised...worse still, u collapse after these endless care...U r e most impt person to them...for ur sanity n well-being, don take this all on ur own...u can always take care of them together when no. 2 older...tink abt it...
mei tai carrier...initially i find all these carriers a bit ex n yes, not sure if bb rejects...so only decide to hav one...pikkolo/beco out of range for me, while e cloth range not sure if strong enuf...so choose a mid range connecta...bought my bb out w e connecta, not bad but wonder e neck support area...there is a thin accessory strap, frm e instructions, itz meant to secure e buttock. Mayb for e connecta users, is it a muz to use this teeny weeny strap? I like it except tat connecta a bit difficult to put bb face e front...hmmm...i see if can improvise a bit lor...
oh jus a side track Q, any1 here planning to hav a tigger bb or rabbit bb? If God wills, i prefer a rabbit bb gal/boi...ani1 stopping @ 1 too...U muz b tinking wa tw, i havnt get past this bb n u talking abt no. 2/another 1?! Jus curious lar...on e other side happi w 1 as nowadays raising a child is really dun play play leh...very high cost!