(2009/03) March 2009 MTBs


WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAa lennyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy so tempting!!! i miss itt!!! i used to buy it when iwas working at NUH... lol. and i wld ask them to spread on both sides.... so sinful but yummiliciousssssssssssssssssss!!!!!!!!!!!
 
hmmm i was jus wondering if any one is keen on having 6mth bash for the babies. jan thread had one recently. i tink its a good idea. they invited someone frm nestle to conduct a talk on weaning. feeding solids if im nt wrong. wld be good bah. heh heh. also good time to catch up and see hw much babies have developed and grown. =) jus an idea. wld need quite a bit of coordinating. venue wld have to be somewhere big as well. to accomodate at least 30mummies n babies. hubbies wld also be welcomed. =) if nt keen we cn always wait til 1yr ba. HAHAHA!
 
tusky + vernice,

Totally agree re: keeping the flame alive with hb. Yeah as first time mums definitely cannot help but become slightly ocd with bb, that's why it's so important to maintain some perspective and keep everything in balance, otherwise it is way too easy to go cuckoo in the head without us realising it - not everything in life revolves around bb after all. There is life outside the front door, and a lifelong partner under the same roof. Make the effort not cos of fear of straying, but because he's our other half, whether or not he has a strong paternal instinct
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Just my $0.02's worth.
 
missycandy:: ya look bored hor. she was actually watching barney. HAHAHAHA!! Her brother watching ma, so watch together. she loves it ley. hoho. but next wk onwards no more liao cause travis go cc liao haha no more tv on for the whole day!

jtho:: haha is it? thank you for the complimentsss! i am loving her so much! she's sooo cute. hoho. (THICKSIN)

miss83:: that one i get from kiddypalace
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babycubes is like you make vege stock or chick stock and freeze it so each time u cook porridge then can use that lo.

vernice:: HAhah got ah! a lot of ppl say she look like her brother. sian man. haha but i do think she looks better than her brother. OH how biased I am. I got the ABC mat.. it's the LG playmat. haha the other side is winnie the pooh but i always put ABC upfront..
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teddybaby:: i let her sit on it just today! haah she is coming 4 months this fri so i thought ok la, can try let her sit sit liao!
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sunshine:: yea! she want to get up all the time, put her lie down, her head wanna geng up. so aiya just put her in the seat and she can be satisfied and we don't carry till arms ache. ahaha. i got from kiddypalace. mine is the princelionheart bebepod, another type is the bumbo seat but i got the bebepod cause of the toy haha!
 
missycandy,

Superb idea re 6mth talk/meet up - totally useful and another excuse to socialise! If I was back in the country I wld be the first to attend
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cindy - hahaha. baby k also like to push her head up. hai. nw she likes to play with the toy. but if too long .she wil try to push herself out of the chair as well. -_-" so i mus faster bathe also. then halfway must peep at her and talk to her then continue to bathe. lol.
 
missy
wa.. great idea on the 6mth bash.. do count me in if there's one

cindy
trishelle sure is a cutie pie.. so how much u got the bebepod from KP?

Re: bb vs hb
hahhaa.. i think u gals r not alone, i m oso like tat, hubby did complained to me tat i doesnt seem to love him tat much liao..hmmm.. think like wat some mention as a first time mom, our attention goes all out to our kid but i do agree tat ultimately they will grow up n have their own life.. our soul companion is our hubby, so i think i gotta made some effort on this liao.. :p
 
pepper:: haha!! thank you. i can't remembe rhow much liao cause i got it for my #1 so now it's hand me down. haha
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how is ziv?

missy:: wah, u might as well bring her bath with you. haha!

Just for fun, i compared both my kiddos at 4mths. Wow. travis is certainly more fat. haha! and he was already botak from the dropping of hair.. wonder when will it be trishelle's turn. hoho.
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areya - where r u ah?

cindy - so cute! lol! no la. i wil put her on my bed in the bebepod. i dun close my door when i bathe. so i cn see her lo. heh heh heh.
 
don't know if it is still available. pink bumbo w tray at $40 only

ave a few baby things for sale:


*BAMBOO CHAIR in nice pink color, Condition 8/10 S$ 35. Also have a brand new try in white $10. If buy both $40.
*PLAY& LEARN QUILT-TENT, Lucky Babybrand new. Very nice colours $60
*3 in 1 BABY GYM,Fisher price, new.$50
*Bumber, long-all around the cot. Easy washable with teddy bear design $10
*Mattress protector & fitted sheet, Aero Sleep-Brand new, practical, breathable, easy to clean, bought in Takashimaya, now $45 for set of two
*Hand made rug,multicolour, great condition $45


Will send more pics & details on request. If interested contact me : [email protected] and SMS 96277297
 
*sneezing away*
turned out to be throat infection not flu. airborne. looks like i'll be cancelling all my appts this week. caught it on the way to the dim sum gathering or during the gathering itself. :p

ladies, do mk sure that you have face masks on standby cos you never know when they come in handy

going to zzz liao. cannot take it. hope someone from here manage to get this pink umbo. v good deal.
 
vernice ...

usually i pump for 20 to 30mins in office ... so can see how many posts i could read n using my hp somemore cos they cancelled my internet access as i didnt log in for 90 days (some silly IT security rule)so whenever i miss you all i log in using my hp hahahahaha

anyway 2 YC (my #1 boy) joke for you all ...

Joke 1 - this morning at 8.10am

YC wanted to eat the chocolate chip bread for breakfast when the daddy actually bought a pork floss one for him. So I say never mind let him eat the chocolate chip one.

While YC was eating, he shouted: "Papa, I like the chocolate chip bread, its very nice you know"

(Papa was in the toilet so never reply)

Me: Ok, good that you like it. Go sit down on the sofa and eat, dun walk around.

YC: Are you Papa?

Me: No, I am mummy. Why?

YC: Why you answer me? I am talking to Papa you know

*faint*

Joke 2 - 8.45pm

YC was looking at my cooler bag and ice brick. Then he asked: "Mummy where is didi's milk?"

Me: In the fridge

YC quickly run to the fridge, open and see. Then he came out anxiously and say: "Mummy, why you keep the milk in the fridge? You cannot keep the milk there."

Me: Why can't I keep the milk there?

YC: Because the milk will be cold. Didi cannot drink cold milk, he will cough you know

hahahahaha i am always v amazed at the stuff that comes out from him =p
 
cindy
haiz.. his reflux still bad and now caught a flu from his grandma(my mil).. poor thing.. running nose n coughing with phelgm for more than a week liao.. luckily no fever.. hope he recover soon coz when hear him coughing or breathing with mucus inside his nose when he cant even sneeze out made me heartache wo.. he's on medication liao..

hazel
do take good care of urself.. little grace need u wo.. *sayang*
 
pinkdemoness,
hope you can hv a good discussion with your hb n works out what's best for you 2 and your bb. if poss, oso feels it's better to follow him coz it's very tough on man alone too. somehow feels that man falls to temptation more easily so must prevent tat if can.
 
re: time w hubby

frankly i fell into that 'trap' when i had my #1 and day in day out it was baby, work, baby, sleep etc and the wake up call for me was this time when i found out that my hubby went back to pick up smoking again

i was so angry that i had a huge fight with him - no offence to smokers but smoking is a NO NO NO to me

but when i cool down and asked myself ... what caused him to go back to smoke and how come it took me so long to find out (cos he confessed that it was like the 3rd pack or something) when he is zzzzing next to me everynight (ok not exactly next cos then my #1 was already between us)

thats when i realise tat i have neglected him BIG TIME ... so times and times i remind myself that HE is the one who will grow old with me ... even though our baby are v close to us now .. we really cant tell what will happen next time right
 
ida,
hopes you feel better. hugs!
feels so sad when i read the blog on the website you pasted, hoping charmaine will get better soon and get the funds required for her treatment in NY!
 
pumpkinseed,
oh oh must take good care of yourself too then can be strong for our bbs. sometimes i too din eat lunch/dinner coz too busy fussy over my little boy. hb dun like it, always tell me the above, so does my mum. striving to be strong as they said and take care of ourselves so that we can be strong coz long way to go with out little darlings. and we must be there for them
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hugs!
 
lenny,
there's a max no. of new payee for dbs internet banking. you hv got to delete some of the existing payees to add new ones if the no. is hit. not sure if this is the case for you. usually i'll delete and then can add new payees.
 
missycandy,
luv your 6mths bash idea! so wonderful
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hoping by then H1N1 is gone then we can all get together with no worries and i can finally see all the mummies, hahha never seen anyone before yet :p
 
missycandy
u got pm
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i all in for the 6mth thingy.
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count me in count me in..kekes

asura
u got pm
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want to ask:
anyone of u using Your baby can read Dvds and / or Baby Einstein Dvds?
how is it? is it really very good for babies? i want to buy but donno good or not and donno shd buy 1 or both. pls give me yr advice ya.. thanks u

vernice
i scare i not enuff BM for tristan . coz everytime (twice a week) i pump the results isnt that good. sometimes 40ml,60ml or good days 120ml. so juz take fenugreek hope it will helps.

re: blocked ducts
there is this Lecithin can be taken orally to counter with blocked ducts. but not sure is it effective or not. maybe some of u might want take note..here is the link :
http://www.kellymom.com/nutrition/vitamins/lecithin.html

alfafa
hope u will recover asap!

pumpkin seed
don worry.. the sophies that u gotten for so many of us is really on a great deal already. a big thank to u. ya i think ur mom is right, even my mom is hinting me on avoid bringing baby out. sigh maybe after this weekend i will really stay at home once again unless we have home visits to go to? haha

cindy
don want la.. currently my mind , my body n soul can only entertain 2 persons in my life . thats is hb and tristan. if suddenly 'pop' another girl i afriad i will have lesser time to split among all of them..

re: giving bb food
theres some signs to take note to know if ur baby is ready..
waking up during the night for an extra feed · watching you eat and trying to reach for your food
chewing their hands
These changes in behaviour are your baby’s way of telling you they’re hungry for more than just milk, so look out for the signs. If you do plan to start weaning before 7 months, you should check with your doctor first.

The above info is i copied n paste from dumex.com website. think better to check with pd again.

Re: bb poo
any babies on BM having thick poo ? tristan have been passing out rather thick kind of poo poo for the past 3 days. donno if this is normal or not. but for color wise is still yellowish..

sorry for a rather long post ya. coz im trying to catch up while i was away just now.
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pinkdemoness,

if u go as acompanied, u get ur airticket there free. then more allowance would be given to ur hubby so tt cuts the cost of flying here n there. but very siong. *hugs* ur hubby ren xin leave u n bb behind?
 
pink,
maybe u can check if your hubby can come back every 2-3 mths if you cannot follow along with him? Do take it easy, I hadsome problemswhen I had my first one...worried abt finances, time and etc.... had many an arguement just asking hubby to take time off to spend time with the family. He do not have official off days and very seldom, do my boy and me have an complete day with him without wking.... all b'se his dad's expectation on him.... :<i>

OKAY Gals........ dim sum promo till end of JULY!!!


DIM SUM LUNCH - 29 July WED 12noon.

1. mangogal
2. queenie ( start saving okay :>)
3. annmelody ( when will I fit my old clothes!)
4. kome
5. missycandy
6. pinkdemoness?
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Queenie, I have Baby Einstein and my baby loves it. She will stare into space and listen to the music. If the TV is on, she will stare at it too but I don't like her having the habit of being a couch potato so I sometimes switch the screen off.

missycandy, I am on for the 6 month celebration too, provided H1N1 has died down by then.

annmelody, where is this dim sum? Was going to suggest Raffles Hotel's chinese restaurant. Can't remember the name now for some reason (which is bad because I worked with them on a project!). It's really excellent dim sum. If ordering the normal dishes, it should be $20-25 a person.
 
Ways to get the fire back in our relationship

Step 1: Leave baby at parent's place this friday.
Step 2: Go for wedding dinner, just 2 of us :D
Step 3: Watch Transformers midnight movie
Step 4: .... give me some suggestions? ....

Thanks to everyone for your support. It's great we can support each other like this. My mum asked me today why I was on her laptop so much, asked if I was doing business. My reply was 'no mum, I'm trying to get my sanity back' hee hee
 
Hi pumpkin seed,

U so farnny, esp e remark u gave to ur mom...Step 4...mayb some smooching moments...?>o<
As long as we noe tat our hb shld b our priority in view of LT, it shld work out...children probably take up say 15-20 years of our lives? Indeed, we hav more free time so called if we r able to train our kids to b financially n emotionally fit...tying them w apron strings a no no idea...i not for mommy's boy or papa's gal syndrome...both hb n i agree tat itz impt to develop kids tat r indep n creative problem solvers...e world tat they face in future will b even more challenging as itz globalised...

oh we plan to watch Transformer 2 movie...but hor...tink gonna b very loud n jarring to e ears...bring ear piece along...tat time i watched T1...wah my ears going deaf liao...
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mangogal, i do eat yoghurt w bfing...is there any problem w tat? I like e Meiji Brand...

Queenie, im interested in e BB Einstein flashcards n books too...ooopss they sell in DVD format? Noe of ani1 doing BP on this? Mayb can do a link as my eyes blur after following so many threads in BP section...prefer a smaller investment in case bb gets bored...

E 6mth bash sounds gggdddd! Actually, we can do so many things if not for H1N1...i plan to visit a galfrien this sat w her bb born in Mar too...but cos of e H1N1, my plan was backfired by my H1N1phobic hb...sighz...

Speaking of relationship w hb, i tink besides making e effort to pat tor w hb...i believe another element to keep e flame going is how well we respect n consider his thots n opinions...even though most of us r highly educated or capable in our career...we make a wiser choice in deciding who makes certain decisions...somehow i believe in a balance of power bet hb n wife...For us wives, itz e power of submission...This S word does not mean we woman r pushovers..it means tat we hav e desire to let our hbs lead as we trust their judgment n leadership...for guys, they probably wan our devotion n respect...so we muz b mindful in doing things tat align w this need...

Ann jus check where is e 29 Jul DS makan? Marriot?
 
queenie: wrt e dvds, my friend let her daughter watch since 2 mths old n now her daughter at age 4 is already reading newspapers..she strongly recommended it to me...think shld be nt bad...

re:dim sum
shld be ok..can count me in ba...

re:HB
guess i'll just have to wait for his return to talk to him..meanwhile think so much also pointless...tks mummies for e encouragement...

asura: i very kiasi one...so i think i'll consider lor...but my priority goes to bb cos he's my miracle bb...remember the fortune teller story i was saying during raja inn?? anyway i love hb very much so will try to get things straight n steady...tks gal...maybe due to stress n didnt c him for quite some time le so ranted ystdy...felt so much better after all of e mummies' word of encouragement..

alfafa: drink more water hor...weather nt gd...
 
pumpkinseed:
my suggestion, leave bb with mum, cook steak n prepare red wine then dine home... i used to do tat n hb will be so impressed cos he quite like home dining cos more cosy n comfy...else see wat he likes to do/eat n plan a surprise for him...
 
<font color="119911">alfafa,
Pm u le.

sassy,
u told pei u cant make in on thurs n change to wed, so which day u can? thur i can.

missy,
np, will pass to vernice.

vernice,
our meetup up is next wed, i tink shld b ready by den. mummies who wans me to pass ur wetbags to vernice, can PM me pls, den i get it ready for her.</font>
 
Good morning mummies,

Seabreeze, I am so tickled by your #1 reply, children can so so cute and they give all kinds of answers which you least expect.
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mangogal, i eat yogurt and like tusky, loves the meiji brand.

alfafa, take care and get well soon ya!

pumpkin, go to a hotel lounge and chill out, thats what me and my hubby like to do, nice ambience and very conducive to just sit down and talk.
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misscandy, I think its a good idea of having the 6th mth bash, count me in ya.
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Morning mummies. Short post cos at work and merely perused through the archives very briefly. Sorry if I miss you out.

Thanks for the encouragement girls. Really appreciate your concern.

GARGANTUAN HUGS to pinkdemoness. Like all the other mummies said, feel free to vent here.

Big big hugs to Ida and alfafa. Hope u get well soon.

Sportyger: Yeah. We shall jia you together!


Last but not least, NOT ENOUGH TIME!!!!!

*rushes back to attempt to clear the mountain-high pile of work*
 
Hi Mummies,

I have a packet of Pampers BabyDry S size (46 pcs) to give away. Used one pcs though and find it unsuitable for my boy.

I have another packet of Goon S size (52 pcs) to sell away. Just quote price. Tried the sample and find it unsuitable for my boy too. I will stick to pampers stages.

Pls PM me only.
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BTw, I stay in Jurong West area for those interested. Self collection only
 
Am interested in the Dim Sum. Count me in too. But thats provided my boy can tahan to stay in carrier. I haven't try him on any carrier yet. Will be trying him on carrier soon. heheh
 
Hazel, do take care... drink more fluid.

Seabreeze, YC is so cute...

sun, the 40% is not applicable to pump accessories.
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time with hubby:
I'm very guilty of that. Time revolving with kids now, rather than him. Even topics when we talk also revolving with kids.
No intimate time also, cos #2 and sometimes #1 is sleeping with us. Somemore now came back to work le, more tiring.
Somehow, I feel that my kids are very much more important than him.
Maybe I'm too independent le... also feel that I can do without him but I can't do without my kids...

bb poo:
after not pooing for 6 days, yesterday he poo-ed...
my mom say the color is yellow/orange and the poo is quite sticky... but it's soft la, so not constipation. phew... i din know breastfeeding baby will not poo everyday.
Now everyday I will massage for him, hopefully he will poo everyday or alternate days
 


Pink, i remember what u told me about the fortune teller at Rajah Inn and i'm so glad he is SO wrong lor...i mean gesh! Anyway, put that episode behind and try to work out what's best in front of you now.

I agree w Tusky, sometimes hubbies want us to "Submit", but i think being a smart woman, we cannot "blindly" submit, must push the limit and have "safety" for ourselves, be it financially and emotionally. Else 10-20 years down the road and he strays/something happens, we are left feeling poor and betrayed....then very hard to pick up the pieces...

I have the "Your baby can read" DVD but haven't played it yet, worried it will affect his eyes...hmm...think will try this weekend...

I agree w Seabreeze, relationship w hubby should come first. Our babies will leave us one day...
 

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