cjteng : Thanks, I'm still learning to adapt. hehe.. Giggler told me she took 6 mths to adapt to her maid, so i m giving myself the same time frame. =)
dazed : Condo still not so bad... last time we used to stay in EC, & there were a few occasions where we juz shut the door, & never lock it (no gate oso)... but nothing happened lor... but we weren't so worried cos' access card is required to enter the block itself. =)
Thanks for ur wrds of advice too. Ya, i m still hoping that i m being too sensitive, & not that the maid is disrespectful... will monitor & see how.