Jappooh,
u nvr post in her BP? Tell us the nick lar, so next time we dun buy from her.. HAHA!
momlouis,
Abt sleeping in day, both ur maid n nanny will hv the same prob wat... u won't noe if the maid/nanny is willing to carry him to slp rite?
I personally prefer Option 2. Cos for me got lots of advantage (i can go out with hb, got someone to wash the dishes/house when I take over bb, etc)... But u will lose a lot of privacy cos u getting maid and ur parents in law to move in.
And u must be prepared for differences that parents in law have w/r to taking care of bb, running the household... Unless u are an easy going person, else will hv conflict. Like for me, I think my PIL are nice pple but I cannot stay with them... hehe...