I die die will never stay with my PIL.. i don't like to have too many ppl staying together in one tiny flat! No privacy at all.. mabbe it is the environment that I grew up in whr I stay in landed property (Malaysia) and we have our own space and even living and dining room oso big so will not feel cramped up.
I oso wanna get a maid but wil still send Zach to school cos i m really very tired! Reach home, need to settle baby, put clothes to washer, wait for it to finish washing, hang them, wash bottles etc etc.. by the time i can sit down n pump is 11pm n if i m lucky Zach is sleeping else.. at least with a maid, i come back, i dun hv to do any housework n i can spend more time wif my baby..
yogi, how much did u pay for ur maid?