(2008/11) November 2008


nut
different la.. the show will last only 2 hrs the most.. any pt of time when u call him, he is there for u.. my physically not there for me.. & also sometimes call him oso hard to get..
 
ali,
Biased ... never reply mi.

No need candles bah unless u want to blow urself .. hehe. I juz wanna go for a very nice lunch.

minky,
We wanna take half day go enjoy.
 
jo
not me la. it's not my actual bday anyway.... nut wan treat us a slice of cake(we two share -_-)... hahahaha
 
Minky
we jus wan to take half day leave relax la.. hahaha.. we do that occasionally..

Jo, Ali
dun b too touched hor.. yes.. a slice of cake.. but i'll prepare 2 candles...
 
nut, jo, ali, do enjoy.
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bt nut, u v "stingy" leh... 1 slice 2 share aiyo...
 
minky
i hav 1 kid to feed lei.. wat to do nei.. e most if they celebrate with me on my bday i'll jus ask for half a slice lor..
 
Hola....

Hey, Hi everyone! Finally... I can log in.. so busy with the stupid new job.. everyday i step into the office is battle already. i should be working from 830pm to 530pm. but every day i ot till 7pm if i am LUCKY! if not is 8pm. then reach home, quickly eat, bath and bonding time with brandon, pat him sleep. and guess what.. i can actually doze off with him till tomo morning for Work. no life right? si bei sian...

wa.. topic abt guys. my hb is always need to be tell to go for outing.. he rather stay at home because he is a LAN GAME "xiao". so nice meh? level up, then level up.. sooo waste time. at night can even on his computer for his game so that he can sell the item he got during his battle in his game.. crazy right?

for me, i don like him to tag alone when i bring brandon for activity.. cause eg. if i say i want to buy shoes for brandon at kiddy palace. he will bring me go there and buy then back home. MISSON ACCOMPLISHED! but for us as a women, we like to still walk ard. if is window shopping. i would ask him along, but if is like beach outing, fly kite etc.. he like to tag along... so far he is ok. he very sticky glue to me.. haha..

peanut: U are sooo funny.. take care of ur stiches!
 
<font color="119911">hi mummies..
just to share that..maybe u all can bring the kids to the fire station for a visit when time permits...it will be a diff experience even for us adults so i m sure the kiddos will enjoy..best part is it's FREE every Sat, guided-tour somemore..

chk out my Facebook, i hv brought my ricky brothers over to the SCDF HQ at Paya Lebar sometime back this yr..

do hope this can bring some gd bonding time for all families..cheers~</font>
 
morning mummies: dymples, glad, snnowy: yes. father &amp; son love to go on holiday together &amp; leave me alone @ home. this time was to genting w my MIL's extended holiday. 20 of them. then the minute my husband drive in, he says "wah, why my driveway so dirty w tissue all over." i said hallo, so 'under-staffed' these 3 days, wat u expect.

no more no more. next holiday, i will bring rachel &amp; leave my husband to look after the other 3 @ home.

nut u sound better already
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hmmm... sounds like many angry wives here. i used to be like u all too but now got used to it already. can't expect too much from men. they don't have as hi IQ as us, hahaha!

happy birthday ali!
 
Morning!!!

back to work after a long weekend break.. hee.. brought ethan boy to the animal resort at seletar, he loves feeding the rabbits hahaa... the horse/goat area is quite smelly though ;p

minky, ya already mark the gathering on my calendar.. btw wat are we going to bring?? ;p
 
Olwen
thanks.. today suppose to see if can remove stitch.. but e wound stil feel a bit sore and one little part stil haven dried up so i also dunoe....

This sat gathering..
i shd b able to go but for potluck can i order some food to b sent ther instead? cos i'll b going with my gal alone so not convenient to carry food there.. besides me is not a kitchen person.. haha... can't really cook..
 
peanut, i also not a kitchen person haha dun want to ruin the food.. ;p

i might be ordering cakes (mousse cake, cheese cake), tried before quite nice.. from melvado.. and they can deliver it free if we hit $50.. anyone want to share?? haha i will get the list if u all want..
 
Thought i just dig this out for all. Food to be brought will be put nxt to the mom's name. pls add on...

Time for a little get together moms, toddlers, babies n hbs are welcome:
It is going to be tea time, welcome to bring some goodies along.
Date: 5th June 2010 (saturday)
Time: 4pm till late or till chilipadi say "the party is over"! lol
Venue: Chilipadi's place in hougang (Thank you for opening your house again )
1) Chilipadi + Megan + Emma + hb
2) Minkybear + Issac + hb (fried fishballs)
3) Kiki + BBQ + hb
4) Lilian + K + hb
5) Happy + Jie Jie + Caden + hb
6) Enne + L1 + L2 + hb
7) Liv + Ethan + hb
8) Alibaba + T + hb
9) Nut + A + hb
10) Jo + L + hb ?
11) Olwen + 4 kids + hb
12) Joyce + QiQi + elder son + hb ?
13) moomummy + D + maid
 
mums....
i'm tired.. may i know if your tods are doing these as well???

1) early morning feed - stil cries loudly for it.. like small bb.. can't wait at all...

2) stil having serious separation anxiety.. can't get out of her sight

3) clings to you like koala bear..
> this is like getting worst.. these days she only wants ME to carry her. Walk a little bit only then wan me to carry.. refuse stroller unless we forcefully put her in and let her cry a while.. even her fav nainai also dun wan her to carry (if i'm around).. want to let her come down walk she'll use her legs giap on my hip.. i'm getting so tired and frustrated..

Last fri.. brot her to my fren's son bday party.. In the beginning she was not too bad.. stil sit besides me to eat e food.. i got away for a little while to get food she also can wait a while.. But jus after one of my fren (who has a fiercer look) tried to play with her.. she got super stressed and stiffed up and for the rest of the nite she's a koala bear liao.. like hanging on to me for her dear life.. By end of the party i already so exhaused.. Then next day brot her to her class after tt went lunch with my fren and her kid who attended same class.. She also refused to take the high chair and again become koala bear.. I got so agitated i screamed at her (again....) in front of the public, hit her soooooo hard on the thigh and i almost jus broke down and cry.. my frens stunned and try to cool me down... dunoe y i so emotional..
 
And these few days she was a terrible child.. anyhow throw tantrums and cry at e slightest ting.. Jus last nite she gena the most horrible shoutings from my husband i also gena shocked by his reaction.. like he has gone all crazy and going to explode soon.. i heartpain for my gal but at the same time she really asking for it..
 
Nuts, (2) and (3) yes sometimes
And my K now is like those spoilt brats u see in shopping malls, sitting/lying on the floor crying and throwing tantrum.
Went to universal studio last wk, she didn't enjoy any of t shows/rides. A little loud noise and she'll freak out
 
Morning mummies,

Peanut, my gal still have milk in the morning after she wakes up (she wakes up very early - abt 5+). She will play a bit with my husband in the living room first then after that walk to my maid's room to wake my maid and tell her "I want milk". She is able to wait for my maid to make the milk for her.

My gal does not show seperation anxiety but is quite clingy when I am ard.
 
Time for a little get together moms, toddlers, babies n hbs are welcome:
It is going to be tea time, welcome to bring some goodies along.
Date: 5th June 2010 (saturday)
Time: 4pm till late or till chilipadi say "the party is over"! lol
Venue: Chilipadi's place in hougang (Thank you for opening your house again )
1) Chilipadi + Megan + Emma + hb
2) Minkybear + Issac + hb (fried fishballs)
3) Kiki + BBQ + hb
4) Lilian + K + hb
5) Happy + Jie Jie + Caden + hb
6) Enne + L1 + L2 + hb
7) Liv + Ethan + hb
8) Alibaba + T + maid
9) Nut + A
10) Jo + L + hb ?
11) Olwen + 4 kids + hb
12) Joyce + QiQi + elder son + hb ?
13) moomummy + D + maid

As for pot luck part, errmmm.. like nut,, not a coook person.. ha.. let's see wat ur need den i buy over bah...
 
nut,
yes sometimes for 1 &amp; 2... he even cried for milk in the middle of the night around 2-3am &amp; need to carry him to make his milk.. cannot wait..good times, he woke up he will shout for neh neh... if waited to long, he willl start whining... sometimes i go toilet bathe oso cannot.. he will sit outside the toilet &amp; cry...

lian,
like tat.. u hardly enjoy ur trip to Universal last week?
 
Good morning mommies,

Haiz.... had a super duper bad weekend. Spend the 3 whole days shouting at my 2 older gals cos they keep quarreling with each other, fighting, whining and worse, can start to talk back and answer me and hub so rudely. Really exasperating. Makes me wonder why I wnna give birth in the first place and get my self all frustrated week after week. Worse still, becos of all the stress and frustration, both hub and me also end up quarreling with each other. I beginning to hate weekends with the family. I really dislike all the squabbles and noise. *aarrgghh*

Sorry... need to vent a bit. Go to work with super black face this morning. What a lousy weekend!
 
minky,
You can remove my name from Sat gathering list. My hb hasnt been back from work since Sat and will be struggling for the next few days at work, unable to come home. So I will let him spend more time with Lucas this coming weekend. Besides, my hb sure wont wanna gg and its too far for mi.
 
Peanut,

Yes. Everyday for 1. But she won't cry like baby. She will start to make noise and kick around without fail between 5.30am - 6.00am. Then when hub or me cannot wake up, she will start to make more noise and get louder in her protest.

For 3, Janessa will cling to me whenever she gets a chance. Last saturday go out to Changi Vilage hotel for their dinner buffet, end up me and my dad gotta take turns to carry her. Don't want to sit in the high chair. Don't even want to eat. But luckily, she dun mind letting my dad carry her. Else I sure will be like you. Feel more frustrated. Can totally understand your feelings cos my #1 was like that I also lost my cool more then a few times. *haiz*
 
thanks..
seems like my gal most problematic.. haiz..

Sat brot her out for dinner she also no guai guai.. wan to eat e food herself but bowl stil got lots of things and she asked for somemore of the same stuffs! More to me like she's playing with food rather than learning to eat it herself! Dun giv her then she cry cry cry.. piangz.. somemore at tampines mall damnz lotz of people see liao lagi more frustrating
 
peanut,
Lucas definitely never wakes up in the middle of the nite telling mi he wans milk else I wld really be woken up and unable to get back to sleep.

He is super clingy to me in the mornings or whenever we are both alone. In the morning if he woke up seeing mi in the room, he will wan mi to carry him. But I refused to and let him cry following mi ard then of cos the superwoman (MIL) will come to his rescue and carry him. One word SPOILT HIM! Whenever we are both alone, he will wan mi to play with him, sit on my lap or lean beside mi playing w stuffs. I cant even go toilet w closed door with him outside. Usually I had to bring him along into the toilet.

I saw twice MIL actually carried him and sit on the kitchen table top right beside the cooker when she is cooking! And once he almost press the hot water dispenser! Lucky I was there and stop him as MIL was busy cooking. So dangerous, isnt it? Of cos anything happens, she is sure to be blamed!
 
Jo, yes dangerous actually my mom also bring issac into the kitchen when she cook cause she claim issac doesn;t want to stay outside alot and will scream n cry... Bt ya she forgot the safety of tke kid i told her many times not to do it bt she is nt v happy about it...

Last time can still put him in the high chair and bring it along to the kitchen nw can't cause he learn to open the seat belt n let himself out... sigh...
 
afternoon mummies!
jia ba buay everyone?

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Just bought a pink PJ from mothercare, this one got 50% off so quite a good buy! hee hee


Time for a little get together moms, toddlers, babies n hbs are welcome:
It is going to be tea time, welcome to bring some goodies along.
Date: 5th June 2010 (saturday)
Time: 4pm till late or till chilipadi say "the party is over"! lol
Venue: Chilipadi's place in hougang (Thank you for opening your house again )
1) Chilipadi + Megan + Emma + hb
2) Minkybear + Issac + hb (fried fishballs)
3) Kiki + BBQ + hb (Kuihs from Bengawan, any special request?)
4) Lilian + K + hb
5) Happy + Jie Jie + Caden + hb
6) Enne + L1 + L2 + hb
7) Liv + Ethan + hb
8) Alibaba + T + maid
9) Nut + A
10) Olwen + 4 kids + hb
11) Joyce + QiQi + elder son + hb ?
12) moomummy + D + maid
 
hi im back from combodia.

it really an eye opener for me. and let me see how fortunate i am. there's is lotsa of poor ppl there. the road is dusty. the children often in dirty clothes and without shoes. and they bath, play, shit and unrine in the dirty brown river.
visit 2 orphanage there and donate cartons of food and stationary to them..

visit the angkor wat and their waterfall too. it really gving me a gd work out. all i do nothing but walk and climb, walk and climb.
on the way to the waterfall is super scary! the stairs so so far apart and thin and super slippery due to the sand. my hubby nearly fell while walking down the stairs carrying our girl! Thank GOD tat nothing mishap happen! and it didnt rain while we are there! if not i really cant imagine wat will happen! it really dangerous walking towards the waterfall.. scare the wits out of us...

went to afews resturant. some of food quite nice.. the t-shirts there quite cheap, toddlers t-shirt are $1USD and the adult one are $2USD. their nite market have lots of stores now..
but the food there quite ex. imagine there coke drink there is about $2plus plus in USD.
 
Jo, very dangerous leh! Don't wait till accidents happen.

Nuts, ur girl is not t worst lah..

Dymples, i understand... I find myself quarreling more w hubby. Esp we both are working, lagi more stress up.
 
hi mummies...
just to share that we really have to watch out our kiddos at this age that they are curious and not to mention "adventurous"..

my Brod darling climbed over the play yard &amp; lean over, fell head down last evening..oh mine, he was really crying LOUD..

he didnt have a gd sleep &amp; thruout the whole night, he was fipping and whinning..i guess he shd hv a shock of the incident..today MIL is monitoring..

so everyone, please do not leave ur kiddo unattended, i was with Mav at the toilet while hubby went to the kitchen to pick up his pacifier chain as we are abt to go over to MIL's place for dinner..hubby who witnessed the whole incident felt bad he left him alone in the living room area..
 
there only one aircon shopping centre call lucky mall and they hav less than 5 stores inside the shopping mall. most of the resturant doesnt hav aircon..
 
darlest, gd to hear she likes t rice
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Oh, i am waiting for my girl to talk alot! haha
Your girl before this doesn't talk much?
 
*drank a bottle of vinegar last nite*

Till now, havent digest ...

Lucas has been sleeping in my room everyday since he was born .. only few times when mi/hb sick then he sleeps with MIL. Sometimes MIL ask Lucas wanna sleep with her, I keep quiet. I also dun let her bring Lucas with her on their KL trip wks ago cos I think if they wanna relax then shldnt bring kids there!

Last nite MIL told mi she wanna bring Lucas to BIL hse for a nite this thursday. I say "oh". Then I asked her BIL hse got extra mattress for Lucas, she say dunnoe .. sleep with her and FIL on the queen size bed. Then I feel abit unbalanced liao ... why Lucas go there have to squeeze until so poor thing. He always turn 360degree during bedtime. I dun feel like letting him go ...
 
Darlest,
Wow! Your trip sounds interesting. But from your description, guess I won't in be in hurry to bring my family over there for holiday anytime soon. But in the future, I will. Just to expose my girls and show them that they have very luxurious and comfortable lives in SG. I can't stand it when my girls keep whining and complaining when they can't get their way. Really hate to see them growing up as Spoilt Bratz! *haiz*


Lilian,
Yah. I already super stressed from work. Then on weekends also cannot rest cos need to handle 3 girls. Really takes its toil. In end, I get very short tempered with hub. I know should not, but I can't help it. Then end up both of us will blow up our tops at each other. Really sucky.


Wtan,
OMG!! Hope that your lil one is better today? Sure to get a shock lah. Bet your hub and you also got a shock. Poor thing. I agree must keep an eye on our tods at all times. Cos it only takes a mere second for an accident to happen. Small one never mind. But if it's a major accident then it will be too late for regrets.


Minky, Jo,
Haiz... Can understand. Both my idiot maid and even my dad is guilty of bringing J3 into the kitchen. Especially when my dad is coaching the maid in her cooking or when my maid is alone and at home and doing ironing! Already keep scolding them that it's dangerous, also like that! On top of that, I also gotta constantly scream at my 2 older gals to get out from the kitchen. Everytime they will run in get things from the fridge or just to disturb the maid. *aarrgghh*
 
lian, ya lor.. before tat, watever she want she will point and not very generous in saying out. for example, i hav to point and ask her wat is this, then she will say. now, watever, she see, she will say it loud. when she want to walk walk when i carry her, she will point to the floor and say "wok wok", when she want to eat biscuit, she will walk to the kitchen and say "bis" etc etc, whens she want us to carry her, she will say "bao bao" etc etc
 
there was once.. my maid left the iron board &amp; iron unattended in the room with door open.. the next moment i saw T inside the room.. although he didnt touch or push the iron board. But i felt it's dangerous. &amp; i got pissed up.. i shouted at my maid for that..she still can replied me that she has switch off the iron..i told her my last warning on this... iron not used keep out of reach from children.. i dont care it's switch on or not...

Jo
i understand how ur feeling.. when T's god mother request if i can put T overnight at her place. i do feel uneasy.. mainly is i worried of him not able to slp or need us when we not around..
 
darlest, my gal dun like rainbow rice at all, alamak! waste the whole packet.
as far as i had observed, she only loves to eat mee-sua, only when i fed her mee-sua she will look at the bowl meaningfully waiting and hurrying me to feed her...
and of cos she loves all kinds of junk food and cold drinks, piangz
 


Darlest
glad u enjoyed e trip... not an easy place to bring a kid along!!

dymples
pat pat.. u're not alone la.. tink a lot of people here tend to hav more conflict with hubby after having kid/s.. Me inclusive.. And worst we're not putting in effort to improve on e relationship... not say e marriage is really falling apart but it feels like we're already married for 20yrs.. no spark liao..

wtan
hope brod wil b al rite.. most scary when a kid fell on e head.. can't relax after at least 24hrs.. -_-"

Jo
wow that dangerous.. my sis's gal arms gena scalded by dispenser hot water lei.. v kelian.. hope ther wont b any scar...
 

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