(2008/11) November 2008

glad_gal, the talk is next Sat ah...
Interested leh, cos my K not talking, and is underweight. But no one can help take care of K on wkends
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Yah next Sat! Topics quite close to my heart too haha.

Thinking if can tompang my mum to drop in for a while to take care - anyway that is around my boy's naptime. But feel abit bad arghh as she already had a 'tough' time during weekdays. :p

Hmm can get ur mum to help for short while??
 
nut,
there is a old wives tales on kid drooling. wonder do u have believed or not.
use a table cloth to wipe her mouth. can stop her from drooling. but hor must be other hsehold one lor.
 
glad_gal
i'm concerned... it could b a sign of some disorder u know?

tri_angel
haiz i already tried that long time ago.. stupid myth doesn't work at all..
 
Nut: Hmm...oh was not aware of that. Have you consulted the PD before then? Can check again during their 18th month developmental checkup!
 
Nut,
could it be her molars cutting thru? Some kids hv excessive saliva, n also accompanied by cough, diarrhoea n so on (was juz thinking abt your posting on bb's cough).
 
Nut,
could it be her molars cutting thru? Some kids hv excessive saliva, n also accompanied by cough, diarrhoea n so on (was juz thinking abt your posting on bb's cough).
 
aly_nat: pat pat nat.

tri: i blur. will go read your FB later.

moomum: at least u 2 have your own bedroom. after my 3 were born, i don't even have my own bedroom. got to bunk in w kai.

ah nut: don't worry about it. luke drools just as much as nini even now & his teeth all out already. will stop sooner or later. for him & nini just a bit later i guess.
 
triangel, what happen?
I find problems at home more headache than at work! I will stand up against bullies at work place, but not at home lor. Cos we have to face those ppl (family members) for a long long time, and somehow we also have to 'give face' to other ppl (hubby, parents for eg.)
Good tat u chose to let it go....
 
lilian,
ya, family problems are the most headache one! work & colleagues we still can choose if we are not happy. but not family members, we can't!!! so no choice... what's most importnant now is my gals & hb. ignore them and their nusiances. pretend as per normal... i will still do my role is a DIL and says Hello to my that KNS SIL if we bump into each other.

olwen,
family problems lor. MIL, hb's dashao & maid issues. long long story........ i think i m the only one who has this problems.
i felt very miserable... but finally i woke up and decided to let it go... if not, will stained my relationship with my hb. so no points right cos of them!
 
Tri_angel,
Yes, ignorance is the best choice when it comes to family issue. Everything also pretend to be blur blur.


Peanut,
Check if she is developing any molar that is causing her to drool.

Re: old wives tales,
Never heard of using a table cloth before. But a marie biscuit when bb was 4 months old.
 
hi mummies,

so long never log in le.. got a new job.. sooo tiring.. my boss send me to go to operation department to train.. wa liao the pp there no life one.. every time lunch, they buy in. finished lunch, start to work immediately.. 6pm knock off, always have to stay up late till 8pm.. worst hor, they cannot log into their msn or any website. plus their hp must put in the bag cannot put beside to check the sms.. si bei jia lat.. lucky, i wont be there for long.. but hor, i reali miss SAHM, every time i come home about 7 plus, quite late le.. like very short hours to spend with brandon.. very gulity and sad.. good thing sat and sun no need to work..

enrichment classes: my son cannot sit still. today i brought him to a flashcard session.. he cannot sit still like most of other kids. who can reali sit and look at the flashcards.. they are in fact younger than him wor.. is my son hyperactive? is it a good idea to let him join such lesson then always the gym stuffs like gymboree? am in dilemma.. one friend says maybe not his cup of tea.. shouldnt force him to go into classes then ask him to sit still but the other friend did mention saying my son should learn and train to sit still so long next time study he will not sit still.. what you ladies think? do u agreed that our this stage bb shouldn go to gym type now, should go to more educational lessons like phonic or flashcards?

walking: finally brandon now can walk, but not on his own. we still need to hold his hands.. weee.. finally feel relief!!
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and now he is reali offically potty train (only urine). he can control his bladder and let us know he needs to pee...

glad_glad: jia you on greg's potty training!
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morning mummies!

anybody wants to share buying healthy times? i got about $200 over worth of orders. if $250 & above, 15% discount.

tri-angel: take care. i also used to let these things bother me then i learnt to let go. luckily my sis in law is easy going & she's my husband's only sibling. after living w my mum for 2 yrs, i conclude tt it is easier to live w my MIL! haha.

nut: drooling not my main concern. i wondering why rachel doesn't want to talk. she can understand what we say, even chinese but she won't say anything unless u really press her. i thot girls talk earlier than boys. my nieces both talked v early. esp the older one.
 
re: discipline

for me trying to have more patience with Jalen...
he getting more notti, active, throwing temper, can't sit still n keep whinning....
recently, i get the hanger to scare him i did beat him on his legs to scare him if not he dun scare even we beat him with our hands...
If he dun listen n keep touching the things i will use the hanger to scare him...

glad_gal
"Jia you" on Gred's potty training....
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Lynn
well done Brandon "clap clap"
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liv
alamak.. Ethan go pee on sofa....etc...faint...
Heard fm my fren says apple tree quite gd..i wanted to sign up for Jalen tat time but they onli tk in by the age of 2 and a half yrs n abv..of the beggining of the yr.
 
morning mummies,

i've a problem... is tat my gal is very timid. everytime she heard sounds eg vacuum cleaner/motorbike starting up/hair dryer, she's scared like hell. i've been trying ways eg i touch the vacuum cleaner & it wont eat me up, but duno if she's too young to understand & she run away instead. do u all hv other methods to build up ur child's courage?
 
rainbowcandy,

me also try to hv more patience wif my gal whenever she get naughty. i use my hand to beat her arms or legs. or pull her away from taking/opening stuff. its hard to explain things to her as i still think she's too young to understand. sometimes i wish i can use vacuum cleaner to scare my gal. but it will be very bad for her. i think i'm getting bit more pyscho liaoz...
 
jeanne
ya lor...realli headache...u onli need to face her after yr work n during wkends....then for me got to face my boy 24hrs....
vacum cleaner ar...aiyo...dun scare her la...
I long long time nv use vacum cleaner le...cos jalen will cry till dun kw wat....is like a dinosaur...:p
 
Morning mummies!

Tks Lynn and RBC
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Lynn: Great that B is now trained! I am inspired by you! My bb is still resistant at times. Hee giving myself 6 mths to slowly train him to tell us how to urinate, so not so stress on everyone
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As for enrichment, I really want to start G on those 1.5 to 2 hrly enrichment either on weekends, or weekdays.
Btw, anyone heard of 'Edufarm'?? Like many centres around Spore, but don't heard much abt them.

Olwen: My boy also dont like to talk though he understands most of our instructions. Me not that worried yet but i guess if by 2 yrs, i wld be
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So fast our babies all would be 18 mths soon. Really a milestone for our kids yah!
 
rcb: my patience using up by ethan and he getting more n more stubborn... ;p ya he go pee here n there, my mum scare liao so i say 2 yrs old then start potty training lor.. coz he still cant tok yet..
ya appletree only takes in our bb next yr.. so this yr we need to go register for next yr..

jeanne: ethan also scare by those sounds.. that day he got scared by the hair dryer and kept crying..
 
rcb, my gal also very afraid & scare of vacuum cleaner. she will cry like duno wat when she saw me taking out the vacuum cleaner. *alamak* so now i only take it out when my hubby is ard so tat he can bring my gal go downstair or hid in the room when im doing vacuum-ing. Previously, she also scare of hair dryer too, but after i slowly slowly show her tat im just blow drying my hair and it didnt hurt ma ma like wat she think. after tat she is ok with the hair dryer.
 
liv, haha, i suddenly think one of the thing tat my gal is scare of, u know what? is the "WIPER"!!
one day, when we are in the car, it rain suddenly and the wiper start to move and does the work. my gal suddenly cried and cried and point at the wiper in front and struggle to get out from the car seat.. no choice tat i have to carry and hug her in my arm the whole journey. so dangerous...
 
olwen, same here. my gal understand our instruction and what we are talking about but she simple didnt want to talk much. haiz.. for example, recently she dun like to call dad dad or ma ma even though she know how unless we force her. but she very generous in saying "mum mum" which mean eat, jie jie when she saw one. everyday she will learn new words but still...

i rem one case of my newphew. he didnt managed to talk until quite late. and my sister is very worried, so she bring him to see the pd. the pd comment that my newphew is confuse on which language to take on, coz my dad look after him and my dad speak teochew to him, where else my mum speak chines, sometimes english to him. my two sister speak to him in chinese where else i speak to him in english.. so..

but then, i always talk to my gal in english and sometimes chinese, beside english, she can learn mandarin too. but still....but i still not so worried. im sure one day she will amaze me. heee..
 
ooooooooooooo!! i want i want! tat the snack i always give my gal to eat. i alway buy the teddy puffs from cold storage for my gal and it my gal favourite! how do i order?
 
darlest
u are so welcome.. din know I'm a sweetie :p

jes
hee hee gam sia for asking me.. i'm fine and better now (down to 1 vomit at night per day)... going back to work next week ... going to facial and haircut this week... weather so hot.. I can just sit here and sweat like nobody business...

how's like being a taitai at home? hee hee
 
umbrella? ooo, maybe it the way tat the unbrella pop open, tat why she is scare?

hee. it depend though. does ur gal live with ur ah ma? if u visit ur ah ma once awhile, it shld be ok.
 
jeanne: HAH thats funny using vacummn to scare your child..like saddist mummy, but now la sometimes they so notti also dunno what to do hor..:p
 
Not the pop sound from the umbrella leh.. Is the 'largeness' of the umbrella... Like suddenly a small stick become a BIG mushroom-like thing! Haha..

darlest, my ah-ma stays over at my mum's hse pretty often, 3 days a wk. So now my gal can understand a bit of hokkien too. haha.. me no worry la.
 


kiki, hope yr vomit will go off totally soon. ya lately oso cos weather very hot, u wear lesser lah, hehe
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me not tai tai lah, u see u still go haircut and facial, whereas i'm 'rotting' at home and turning more yellow, haha
 

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