Hello Mummies,
Finally free to log in.. busy busy busy...
Olwen, the triplets have the same nose. who is who ah? u nv tell us which one is who.
Peanut, i was telling Maggie that the bb shd be part of the family not the CENTER of the family. our lives shdn't revolve around the bb. Honestly it is very hard lah cos the bb is the most impt thing but my fren said if u trained the bb to have a routine that suits u best so that u have some time for urself. U shd set a routine for ur Nini to slp. Don't let her slp too late as this might lead her to being cranky for the rest of the next day. if she wakes up at 9plus, dun turn on the lights, don't even talk to her or even look at her. Cos all these encourage her to get ur attention. just continue to rock her, pat her and u can hum a song to soothe her to slp. Do this gradually.. but the bottomline is u shdn't even bring her out of her bedroom! just keep soothing her in the same env.
I thought once u have a kid u basically have no life? why can't u bring her along? she is ur kid wat?
Zach also started to recognise ppl liao. Over the wkend we brought him over to my parents' plc. When my dad carried him, he refused to smile but cried instead. But when hb and I carried him, he will keep smiling.. usually wat i do is to carry him until he calms down then pass him back to my dad again.. keep doing until he is fine lor.
Yoyosan, oh dear.. i rem when i spilled some of my EBM, abt 30ml of it all over the kitchen counter. I was so upset that i cried the whole day (i kid u not). was telling myself why shd i be bf-ing, waking up to pump AND then promptly spilled my own milk! haha.. crying over spilled milk LITERALLY!
Blessedmum, i think u did a fabulous job of taking care of Evans urself. i can't!! may be on wkends, send Evan to ur mum's plc for half a day so that u can rest a bit. that's what i do!
Fruche, very hard to train ur bb to slp without suckling!!! unless u got the time and energy cos the trick is to WAKE the bb aft he has fallen aslp on ur boobs so that he can fall aslp by himself. that's called slp training. usually that's what i do with Z. aft his bottle feed, i will make sure he is still conscious but recently getting a bit hard liao. cos he is taking some meds for his nose and it promptly sends him to slp aft his feeds.
Re: burping
U shd continue to burp ur kids until they are able to sit up unaided (6-8 mths). Sitting up helps them burp.
Re: gathering
Initially a few of us wanted to do a swimming party. Maggie had kindly volunteered to book her condo's function room. Kash also told us that if we can get abt 20-30 mummies we can call up diaper and milk powder companies to tell them we have such an event and if they would like to give us some free samples for the mummies to try. Apparently Kash attended a party like this before. If u guys are keen, we can start planning. May be plan for June when all of our bbs have reached 6 mths and can go swimming.