dymples, joyce, snnowy
got leh...got give #1 lots of assurances, talked to her nicely etc...gave her attention ....useless leh...
i even sleep in her room with her leh.....during weekends, i only pump milk and nvr handle bb at all...hb will be the one dealing with bb... i 100% on my gal. Still like that
happy, vincy,
can understand ur frustrations. But i am worried if I start using the cane, she will also "learnt" from me and start to say "cane mummy" " cane daddy" , "cane bb", "cane po po, gonggong" etc... coz last time I beat her, my mum started to use this to threaten her by saying "if u notti, ur mummy will beat u".."if u do this, I beat u" etc...then beat the sofa, table in front of her to threaten. She ended up chanting she will beat everyone whenever she is angry...
that's my worry loh...
snnowy,
agree with happy...how u handle 1 toddler and 1 bb alone? plus housework? Do u cook both meals for your toddler? coz during weekends, when I have to cook for my gal, i spend at least 1 hr in the preparation, cooking and washing.. after that still have to feed her. How u manage? Also, how ur bb naps? Coz when my #1 is ard, bb hardly gets to nap properly coz #1 will be screaming and crying so noisy and disruptive
vincy
ur gal so smart...fully toilet trained liao? mine still using diapers
wanna train her but we really too busy
Is ur #1 attending CC now?
happy
thanks for the reminder... will discuss with joyce abt gogobambini
but can we use our #2 CDA card to get 20% discount for our #1?