Hi Jo15, peanut00 & Enne. Nice to know you all >.<
JO15:
I have been reading books, and watch ppl giving birth video on you tube (haha... )& heard soo many stories from friends, who experienced natural birth. after all, me and my husband both decided C-Sect is better for me.
ppl say, we normally follow our mum's genes, and my mum had a difficult birth, so she support me for a C-sect. so as my MIL. and my sister had C-sect last year. Her C-sect went so smooth, and she told me was very good, better go for the same. And I told same Doctor as her.
The more I read, the more worried I was. So I talked with my doctor last visit, and he told me, not to know too much.. haha... He say, base on his 20+ yrs experience, mum suffer less with C-sect. and only 20mins, baby would be out, everything finished.
From youtube, I can see most women who went natural birth, without any support, or less support are the Europeans, who are much more bigger size than Asian woman, and I just think they are different build compare to us.
However, it's a personal choice. some books say, it's all depends on our mind. If our mind think we can do it, then we surely can =)
I guess the birth method is not as important as the out come. healthy baby & healthy mummy is the most important =)