(2008/11) November 2008

Enne,
actually hor, announced to family & close frens liao. he go announced to his colleagues.. guess he too excited la..
my side i am still lying low profile. haha.. waiting after 3 mths.

yeah time to go home soon!
 


hey ladies,
i am planning to inform boss tom. coz due to work plans it seems like there will lots of outdoor heavy duty work involved so i think i better tell him in person if not wait he think why i dun want to do when i am usually very on with the physical activities. dunno how he will react to the news, think he might choke on his breakfast,hahha..

my tummy is starting to show slightly and hubby also thinks its showing a lil already. am hoping its not that i am getting fat! =P
 
I was about to ask whether can we go do color for hair.. cause got 2 frens wedding coming May.. Looks at what enne mentioned, seems cannot hor.
 
joyce-Don't think can but I know some mummies still go ahead ler.. I also don't attend weddings too coz according to MIL, scared bb 'pantung' lo.. but some pple still go ahead so in the end still depends on how u think ba..


alibaba-its another day again...
 
Gd mrning mummies - mid wk !!

Re - Colouring/perming of hair
I will not do it on the safe side.

Re- Wedding
Enne , my colleague is gettin married in May. Agreed with you.. some will pantang. But i will ask him 1st , if his wife n him dun mind then i will go else give hong bao to him ;)
 
Spin-I got wedding dinners in mth of oct,nov and dec.. think all cannot go liao.. coz dun think my MIL allows too but Yeah person no go, angbao still must go la.. heee....
 
haru,Spin-my job doesn't requires any outdoor work or what.. but I thot of telling my boss so he won't think too much abt me taking MCs now and then???.. Till now I haven't taken any MC for my MS although I wish to.. coz haven't announce lo..
 
Enne- yah.. person no go, hong bao still go .hee Well I think telling our boss at least they kwn we re preg.. so they will be more sensitive towards us ? my tot
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gd morning all ^_^
enne, ya another day again. one more day to friday. yeah yeah

re: wedding dinner
i've rejected 1 in May cos still in 1st trimester. i'll still go the rest if the couple dun mind =)

Re: hair do
will not do anytin til after confinement. hehe.. for bb good mus ENDURE! haha
but the most worry i have is whether can slim to original figure in time for CNY. heehee..
 
Spin-Yeah hor.. maybe I find a time to say ba.. hee.. so.. any reaction frm ur boss??

alibaba-Yeah that crosses my mind too.. I think if no time do hair, go shopping or slim down.. think will look 'auntie' for CNY liao. haha.
 
Enne>
i have took 2 days MC since i'm preggie wor.. & it's constant two tuesdays. Act today really feel like not coming to work de. cos v tired. But i still drag myself to work today. cos mus save some MCs for "rainy" days.. believe 3rd trimester will be more tired than now.
 
alibaba-I also thot so.. coz doing those scans and tests I think need to apply MC so trying not to take if can but really feel 'exhausted' today.. somemore my boy keep waking up last night.. I'm super tired lo..
 
wedding>>

i went to a relative wedding when i was in 7wks.. actaully i super tired. somehow my MIL 'insisted' that me and hb have to go. i told hb that i was super tired but he says ppl come for our wedding, so i have to attend too. i was a bit upset.. coz the ms was super bad...

subsequent weddings, will chk with the couple, if they not patang i will go.. unless ms super bad...

SLIMMING>>
must share here how to slim back okie?? my arms now are quite big.. somemore still have a few mths to go..
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pkum>
yup. if relative wedding, mus give respect. so dun have a choice. But if really not feeling too well. u shld be staying at home let ur mil & ur hb to represent u mah. Nevermind, it's over liao..

Jus hoping the MS will be gone soon
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Slimming>
i have one fren, she got even slimmer than before preggie after giving birth. She actually ate v light meals each time. So nv gain much fats.. & her weight did not even hit 10kgs lor. And Doc said bb is growing well wor. Maybe she is lucky oso. she dun crave for oily & fatty food.

tis kind of method really v diff for me. cos i am person tat cannot resist temptation. hahaha.
 
morning mummies...

my MS is getting better as the days go by. Next wk will be going into 12th wk.

Next wkend will be seeing gynae and will know if all is gd.

I told my boss quite early after my 2nd appt with gynae so that he know and understands why sometimes I need to work from home. So far he has been very understanding and always ask me how I am on Mondays. I must say I am very lucky as he is very understanding and doesn't penalize me when I work from home. Also when I have check ups, he doesn't expect me to take leave or produce MC.

Have you guys told your parents abt your preganacy? I will only tell my mum after my next appt. She damn super patang, last year I lost no 2. and she said I shld not have announce my preganacy so early. So this time round, I intend to tell her only after the ok from gynae.
 
why wedding dinners cannot go as well?? pantang about wat?? we pantang or the wedding couple pantang (ie not good for bb or the couple)? sigh dont understand.. pregnant liao so many things cannot do/eat.. Chinese really think too much. I got 2 close frens wedding in May leh.
Pls explain on the pantang thing
 
peanut00, think is chong xi... it is said not gd to have 2 xi shi together lor.. preggy is xi wedding is also xi ma.. then again it's up to u to believe anot lor.
 
peanut00-coz according to chinese, cannot have 2 xi(1) shi(4) together thats why lo..

chillipadi-lucky u got a good boss, I haven't told mine yet.. I told my inlaws first thing and my parents too..
 
Gd morning ladies

me feeling very down today.. last night i dreamt i lost my bb.. the pains in my tummy was worse last night. no longer at the sides but the whole portion... but it has since subsided... my boobs dun feel as sore leh... am i imagining things?

Re: wedding dinners
I have one in sept. shd be attending since its a relative. they are catholics so i dun think they worry abt pantang...
 
alibaba>> now 12wks but the ms is like never ending.. must be positive!!!!

i told my mum once i found out i was pregnant.. i was too shocked and clueless. then my family side, slowly one by one knows.. my hb inform his mum whom also went off to inform his family side... then suddenly a friend told me to stop informin ppl. she more patang then me..

Bear>> maybe u need to relax more... make ur sleeping area more comfy and better ventilation? may help..
 
bear, if you are not feeling too good, call ur gynae and let him know the symptoms or go see him and have him check you. it cld be nothing or cld be something and if detect early can help things... not trying to scare you but better be safe than sorry...
 
hi ladies,

RE: wedding
Oh, so i must check whether my fren is pantang or not, if so then i wont attend liao. But 1 of them is christian, so i think is ok.

RE: Hair colouring
Hai,, have to wait till i pop liao arh.. still a long way.. That means we also cant do rebonding or perming etc???

Bear, think u think too much during the day and had this dream at night..Not to worry, initially when i am abt 4, 5 wks, i also dream that my bb has gone.. But i stay positive, just tell myself is a dream only
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Thanks ladies... may be i m worrying too much... still have nausea so may be i m over sensitive.. sigh... pregnant really a lot of worries..

Chillipadi, my gynae would say no bleeding dun worry... normal stretching.. plus i got very bad connective tissues lor.. so may be the pain is worse becos of that. My mum told me she got such pains too...

sigh....
 
hi mummies,

regarding hair colouring, i am 1 "bad" mummy who dye her hair during my first preg. I think I did it during 1st trimester, and luckily everything turns out fine. This time, I am going to do it again. At least once, cos current colour and natural hair colour is diff, and i have short hair and alot of grey hairs.. so cannot imagine if i dun colour. will look horrendous. I checked over here, and was told that its safer to colour during 2nd and 3rd trimsester. Also asked gynae, he told me don't tell him if I do it. :p
 
wahh... at e rate of eating n vomiting.. most likely mine is a gal =D hubby also say he has e feeling will be a gal.. boy or gal, both also like as long as healthy bb
 
Bear, it's juz a bad dream, don't read too much into it. Mayb it's juz the bad weather & your worries tat cause the bad dream bah. Relax yourself, mayb do something tat u would enjoy?

I also keep having cramp tummy this week - my 11 weeks, I read tat bb's brain is growing fast from week 10 so guess it's juz normal stretching. Check with your gynae on the next visit?

Misaryeo, yah if u really have to colour your hair then at least wait till mid 2nd trimester when bb is more stable bah. & let the stylist know so tat he will stay away from the roots.
 
haha... me lor.. make some noise. else v quiet leh..

so Sianz. last night nv slp well again.. toss & turn.. btw hav ur start applying lotion to prevent stretch mark? i have start using clarin's tonic oil alternate days liao...
 
alibaba-I used that for my first preg.. but don't know got use anot, I still got leftover.. how do u apply? its 'oily' right??..
 
ever since pregnant, i've become lazier than ever. permed my hair during 1st tri without knowing abt the pregnancy and now don't bother to upkeep the curls.. luan like dunoe wat.. go office anyhow wear until colleague ask if i going market.. even face also lazy to use clenser.. only wash with water. whole day jus feel like lying on the bed watch tv with aircon on .
 
Enne,
u used it for ur #1. den duno got use anot??? have stretch mark after using giving birth? Few of my frens recommended me leh. i applied after shower lor.. alittle on the palm den apply on tummy & hip/buttock. haha.. i find it ok not so oily la. dun apply to much la...
 
alibaba-still got lo but not a lot.. sad la.. ugly.. u mean very little? I thot its quite oily ler.. or maybe I applied too much last time..
 
peanut>
i am oso lor.. i permed my hair for CNY. haha.. nv upkeep my curl. too lazy to wake up earlier to apply lotion. Even put make up sometimes oso lazy.. even my colleague oso noticed i look so messy. hahaha.. hair messy. face oso nv put much make up. wear flats.. all start guessing if i'm preggie liao.. lolx.
but nowadays MS feeling better liao. so got abit mood to do extra tings la.. the stretch mark is the most worrying... saw some pple's v scary leh..
 
i havent bought the stretch mark oil cos my tummy stil as flat like dunoe wat. once it gets a bit prominent then i'll get it. Think if i really get too lazy to put will ask hubby to rub for me. Eversince pregnant he always give in to me ahahhaa.. man... so realistic
 
like yesterday went eat seafood.. people say pregnant woman cannot use hand to touch crab or else bb will have extra finger/s.. then i ask my hubby to peel for me lor.. he did it reluctantly wahahhaaa...
 
xing fu leh.. my hb somehow give in abit to me also la. haha... sometime he dare not play too rough with me. said i am too fragile now.. ask him to apply lotion for me abit difficult cos he most of times need to work late. so i cannot for him to come back.
 
Hi ladies! hope u had a gd lunch..

Jenn, i think it meant before conception lah.. hahaha.. like that almost everybody would have a gal cos they puke so much!

JJmom, me trying to relax.. anyway no more pains liao.. so may be like wat u said lor.. stretching. but this morning my CM is yellow... usually is white.. dun wanna read too much into it.. as long as no blood can liao.

Peanut, no lah... i think it is ok to touch seafood! i m having prawns almost every other day! love them! hahaha...

Alibaba, me thinking not to apply stretch mark creams.. heard it doesn't help. :p an overseas webby said the no. 1 recommended cream is Palmer's Cocoa butter. think it is sold at selected Guardians.

Who never wash face with soap? eeeeee... :p i cannot dun wash face without soap.. so oily!
 
ladies, i applied cocoa butter (bought from The body shop) during my 1st pregnancy and i don't have any stretch mark. Even my gynae also said, wow, very good, no stretch mark for u
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But i think also depends on individual.. can try out if u wish
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bear>
i do have yellow or white CM de leh.. tot it's normal.
yah. i saw before tis palmer's cocoa butter in Gaurdian.
 

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