(2008/10) Oct 2008

<font color="0000ff">Jelly,

Tell me abt it hahaha, Ash has been throwing all the blocks all over the floor then pretend to take a look as if it's "not on purpose" -_-""
</font>
 


<font color="aa00aa">Wow! A FP activity table for $39.90!! That's cheap cos the leapfrog musical table which I bought for wenxuan last year was more than $100. Luckily wenmin loves it too and I consider the money well-spent since 2 kids are using it.</font>
 
Jelly! Which store did u see the rocking horse. I just called the Suntec Toys R Us and price was $59.95. Like u I am ok with all the colours, but my top choice would be yellow.
 
<font color="#C24641"> Bluey
haha. no la.. nt kind la.. just telling the truth.
happy.gif
</font>
 
<font color="#C24641"> Erin just make her first step!!
but she prefer to crawl. fastest way to get to me. -_-"
lazy girl!!! but glad that at least i get to see her first step b4 i go to work.
happy.gif
</font>
 
mummies,

she din see PD, wanted to bring her to see yest nite but doc was fully packed. The nurse asked me to give her the flu med 1st, so if tmr still doesnt recover, i will bring her to the PD..am worried cos its long weekends!

dunno hw to got the flu leh, no one is sick at hm
sad.gif
my mum said probably teething..
 
Karen, u mean Baby Jo stopped using her Jumperoo. I got the brightstarts exersaucer and minibee still loves it. She will go do her jumping everyday, I change the hanging stuff and add on toys abt so she doesn't get bored...

FP table, Billingual? Jelly, I saw that KP has 2 tables on promo. One is a musical one and the other one is puzzles I think. $39 and $49.

Duplo vs Mega Bloks. Any one knows the diff? Like Baby Rebby I think Minibee will throw the blocks around rather than build stuff.
 
busy bee
yah, she will struggle when we try to put her in and if we managed to, she would whine in less than 10 secs. Unless we sit with her, entertaining her. But what's the point then? Jo is an energizer bunny, active active hyper.
 
On our babies banging the toys together instead of building them . ... see the article below. Was reading it last night. It talks about letting your child free play, exploration and his ability to try new out of the box actions like banging the toys together to create sound and music instead of the pre-assigned building the blocks or slotting in the shapes. Makes so much sense to me!



******************

Importance of Play

By Shelly Sim





There is no doubt that all children love to engage in play – a seemingly pointless activity that, in actuality, helps our young develop psychomotor skills, hone their hand-eye coordination and tap into their creative minds.

Despite its important role in a child’s development journey, many adults overlook the necessity of playtime as the child grows older and would rather they spend the time on education. Various forms of play, however, boasts of the following benefits:

Active play – such as sports or some time at the playground – is a good form of exercise for the kids and serves as a good distraction from their busy lives as students. Not only does it strengthen the body, it also sharpens the mind as physical activity brings more oxygen to the brain and results in heightened responsiveness. In the long run, your child will have a healthier body too!

Stimulating play in cases of the modern favorites such as computer games can help your child develop analytical skills, and quicken thinking responses. Almost all games require your child to think quick on his feet and respond appropriately to the situation presented. As long as such play is monitored closely and rationed throughout his day, there can be little harm done.

Creative play occurs when your child prefers to spend his or her spare time on artistic pursuits such as drawing, painting, or even making Play-doh sculptures. Pablo Picasso once said, “All children are artists. The problem is how to remain an artist once he grows up.” If we let our children to express themselves through art, it will also allow us to explore their imagination as we view each piece of their artwork.

Although there are so many ways to engage in play, there are often limited activities that an infant can play, unless you participate.

Peek-a-boo, a long-time favourite between parents and young children, enforces the idea that you have not “disappeared” but is merely out of sight. It helps your baby cope better with separation anxiety as he or she grows older, as you will be able to comfort him with a reassuring voice from the next room, instead of having to put down what you are doing, just to pick him up.

Other than the benefits of learning through play, acting as your child’s play partner will also strengthen the bond between parent and child – a sure bonus that will keep the relationship close even though you might spend most part of each day working away from your baby.

Restrictions




Once your baby is old enough to experiment with the myriad of toys available, the newfound fascination may help to take him off your hands for short periods of time but remember that it is still very important not to neglect your child, or restrict the way he might prefer to play with his toys.

When my son turned six-months-old, we presented him with a shape-sorting toy hoping that he would recognise shapes and do us proud by sorting them into the similar shaped holes in the sorter box.

I cannot begin to describe the sense of disappointment I had felt when he deny the common logic of the toy’s purpose, but as the weeks went by, I finally understood that he had his own way of playing and started to take it in my stride.

He would bang the shapes together, stack them up, throw them around, play fetch with our cats using them, turn the sorter box upside down to cover the shapes as if playing peek-a-boo with them – in essence, everything but sorting out the shapes. And in actuality, there was nothing wrong with that.

He was, and is, simply a baby who doesn’t like to follow strict rules when it came to play.
He enjoyed “making music” by banging the shapes together, as how he would drum his tiny hands on any surface just to see what sounds he would create. He was practicing balance when he was stacking up the shapes. He managed to figure out that the box would work well as a hiding place for the shapes. And most importantly, he expressed his generosity by allowing our cats to share his toys with him. Instead of showing me that he could sort shapes, my son had showed me much more of what he was capable of.

It was also this experience that had enlightened me on how adults should not restrict the way children prefer to play. Playtime is not only about fun, it also helps our children learn and grow in various ways that no other activities can provide.

<font color="0000ff">There are benefits to a child regardless of how he plays, and if your child can break out of the mould and find new ways of playing with his toys, we should feel proud of his creativity instead of insisting they use a toy in the way it was “meant to be”. Your child could be a genius in the making for discovering alternative methods for simple toys!</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Busybee,

Yup, there's a new bilingual FP Table =D (English and Mandarin) abit strange when you hear the commands in the latter hahaha,
</font>
 
Lilbluey... really. Hmm must check it out! Will need anything that can help her master Mandarin! hahaha. Mine is terok!

Ruffles... Brilliant article. wah we have GENIUSES! hahaha

Karen... Baby Jo is indeed ur Koala Baby!
happy.gif
So sweet, she just wants Mama's attention.
 
August Crawlers' Gathering
Date: 9 Aug (date change)
Time : 11am to 3pm
Venue: Mona's Condo Function Room, MeraPrime, just next to Tiong Bahru MRT station
http://www.meraprime.com.sg/index.php?page=locationmap
Dress Code for Baby and Parents: Red/White (optional)

1. Jelly &amp; Rebby (paid)
2. Karen &amp; Jowenda
3. Joanne &amp; Rianne (paid)
4. Forest &amp; Kieran (coming late, no food)
5. Penny &amp; Claudia (not coming)
6. XinYing &amp; Marcus
7. Monyetnakal &amp; Jonathan
8. Surf &amp; Mag (paid)
9. Chris &amp; Ashton (paid)
10. eLcH &amp; Dylan + HB (no food)
11. cheerbear &amp; shawn (paid)
12. icylemon with Lil Rachel &amp; Regine (Bengawan Solo de Kuehs) AM OK but will leave ard 1pm coz I have another family gathering.
13. Mint &amp; Regina + HB (Strawberry cheesecake)
14. Christina &amp; BB Zac
15. Jolly &amp; Ashton + HB (Can only reach at 1pm) (paid)
16. Jill &amp; Zoe
17. JJmom &amp; Nat (no food)
18. Everafter &amp; Bryan
19. Jerelbliss &amp; Caden + HB
20. Big Flamingo &amp; Julian (paid, but not coming)
21. Nickypower &amp; Kaelyn +HB (Can only reach at 1pm) (paid)
22. Wan Chuen &amp; Kaijie (Paid)

<font size="+2"><font color="ff0000">$12/adult.
Transfer to XY POSB Savings 218-00838-0</font></font>

Order from QiJi. And according to Mona, not many ate the Mee Siam. So... this time round, only order the nasi lemak and more popiah and soon kueh. And to save on transport, we're gonna self collect at 12noon from Tiong Bahru Plaza.

Those who come earlier can help look after the creepy crawling babies while I make trips with hunky men (yes... hopefully the hubbies come early to help me. Hint Mona's Man) to get the food.
 
<font color="aa00aa">Now I learn not to buy expensive things for kids le cos they only used it for a while nia and may become white elephants! </font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Mousebb,

Same sentiments but sometimes just can't it leh ;p~

Hmm, must learn to be more prudent I found out that even thou Ash has been introduced to new toys he still prefer his old toys especially his muscial piano!
</font>
 
Mummies,

does ur little ones throw toys away maybe after 10 mins. My gal will get sick of toys easily..10-15 mins, she will throw it on the floor, when u pick it up for her, she will throw it again.
 
Mousebb, I agree. I bought minibee the Leapfrog littletouch leappad and she has almost the whole collection of the books/cartridges cos Mummy thought it was a awesome toy. But she has only been lukewarm towards it, more keen to crumple up the pages of the book. So the item has been banished to the top of her bookcase for now. Think I'll re-introduce it when she is a little older.
 
hi huini - ya..my son will throw his toys that we give him while he is on high chair eating and he will look down on the toys expecting u to pick it up. He starts to throw his pacificer as well... sometimes he does a manjong style - he will sweep all the toys down

hi bluey - hee hee ash must b v happy w his new toys. that day i bot a handmade stuff toy - which my hb was against. I bot it without hb...so went home told him i had to get it cos E was holding onto it. My hb refused to believe, took that toy on one hand and another old stuff toy on the other hand. Luckily E did not fail me..he crawled towards my new toy for him... haha
 
<font color="0000ff">Vanilla,

The attention span twds a new toy is very pte ltd.. after a short while it will land on some other spot and he will go back to his old toys -_-"
</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Vanilla,

Where did u get a handmade stuffed toy from? Had been wanting to get him a teddy bear but my hb is very particular abt the fur dropping out and etc...
</font>
 
Huini,
Had added you on FB.

My boy attention span is very short. So I will rotate the toys every few days. Save me the trouble of cleaning all the toys too. My hb told me to stop buying new toys leh. The boy is happy playing with coke bottles, yakult bottles... haha...
 
<font color="aa00aa">busy bee
I bought the leapfrog littletouch leappad for wenxuan too but like mini bee, he crumpled up the pages of the book and I have no choice but to keep them.</font>
 
vanilla,
my girl not using pacificer, she just like the 'feeling' of throwing things. Just want to bully us, if we din pick her toys, she will start to scream. can't stand her..haha

pinkimum,
add u shortly, nw boss sitting behind me, waiting for him to go out for lunch, haha
 
huini,
My boy always throw things when seated on highchair. Sometimes I just get ready the 8 stacking cups and pass to him to play one by one instead of keep picking up the toys while feeding him. So tiring. Haha...

Any babies here only take catnap? My boy can nap for 20minutes and is up. So tiring.
 
<font color="0000ff">Vanilla,

I can't rec'd anymore MMS now becos my hb cancelled the svc as I accidentally pressed a button the other day w/o realising I log on to internet and the bill was shocking! -_-" boo hoo hoo is the material gd?
</font>
 
<font color="0000ff">Jelly,

Thxs for the compliments, it will motivate my hb to work harder, there's still much room for improvements
happy.gif

</font>
 
<font color="#C24641"> Huini
ya.. he's feeling better. thanks for concern.
happy.gif


my sister is vry demanding. she's asking too much!
she wan the singetl ppl to deliver handset to her DOORSTEPS!!
wa kao!! den she compare singtel with m1!! she's really sickening! </font>
 
<font color="0000ff">JJmom,

Ytd night before mailing out your CD, it dawn upon me that Jolly will be meeting you guys on Sun, therefore I've alrd handed her the CD earlier on so that she can pass it to you on Sun
happy.gif


Hope you dun mind
happy.gif
Thxs
</font>
 
hi bluey- saw the pics - v nice...i think ash is v cute... love the closeup shoots...

wah! did u call the telecom and ask for cheaper bill? sometimes they r kind can take some $ off.... i understand...i surf once and came up to $300!!

the material is normal cloth, but it is done like patchwork type... hmmm...if i can get my sister to download the pic from my hp to the comp, i email to u the pic.
 
Wow... Bluey, I want to go see the pics!!

Jolly, looks like Baby Ash and ur family had a awesome time at Fidgets. Question... Tot fidgets has a ball washing machine. Not for toddler's corner?

Jelly, u bot ur rocking horse yet? Me called to check only 1 left at suntec and a abt 6 at forum!
 
<font color="#C24641"> my sister is making a stupid nuisense!!
she wanna call down to singtel n complain that they dun hve delivery service!!
LOL!!! n i encourage her.. haha!!!!
let's see how she goin to embarass herself!!! hahahaha!!!!!!!
so mummies, dun keep saying i good.. so u see how good i treat my sister? haha!!!</font>
 

<font color="0000ff">Karen,

Shooting wedding is highly stressed which my hb feels he's not up to the standard yet..a colleague of him asked him to be her wedding PG but he refused hahahaha..

Think let him concentrate on what he's doing right now first, hopefully as he shoots more kids, he will be tempted to have No 2 muhahaha *dreams on*

The other day when he shoot Nat, he keeps saying she's so sweet
happy.gif


Vanilla,

Thxs for appreciating the photos..

They oni agreed to waive only if I cancelled the internet connection -_-""

If too troublesome, nvm, paisei leh

</font>
 

Back
Top