curioxete,
I am also considering getting a doula. Seems that no one around me used one before. I thought if hubby not around, at least there is someone else to give me support. But I think hubby will not understand how much pain I go through if he is not around during delivery. It will be meaningful to share the moment.
SAHM
Actually I am quite worried about taking care of the bb myself. Then everyday and everything will evolve around the bb. Not sure can handle or not. And financially, I think have to cut down on personal expenses. But maybe with a bb around, I also have no time to spend money on myself. lol...
dotzzz,
My bb is 448g at 21weeks. Gynea said okie, so I guess should be average?