Re our big boys
I used to close 1 eye too as in what happens outside the room(that I didn't see) I try not to be bothered. Till D had the accident and I really really do not understand in the 1st place why this kind of accident can happen. Because I am very sure he knows he cannot do that. Till E told me few days later to eat a stamp.
When I refused and told her cannot, I will die if I eat the stamp. She told me simply that I won't die becos papa always eat the stamp and he just spit it out. Won't die 1.
I tell u I was utterly shocked. How could he teach the kids that. True he might be trying to show them magic BUT he should have explained that he was bluffing n they will die if they try. He is the parent too, he has to be responsible for his own actions.
So I asked D again why he poked the chopsticks into his mouth. Was he trying to do magic? N he said yes!!
So u see jus because of my hubby's fun caused us to spend a night at the hospital n so much stress.
N then will be be E's turn with the stamp next trip to the hospital??
These r the things my hubby will "play" with the kids in his work room just before he leaves for work in the evenings so I dunno what they do there since I dun follow in. But now u see it seems like I really really must stick with them 24/7.
N now D has something called vampire that stuck in his mind but he really doesn't know what it is but it eats ppl.
See hw fustrating it is. Just the kind of things I hate, installing fear in the kids for nothing. I even forbid my hubby from scaring the kids with darkness becos is the dark really anything to be scare of?? N if D is still afraid in NS then I will volunteer my dear hubby to go n sleep with his own son. See who is more malu, his son or him!!!
Jacelyn, please quote my example and make sure your hubby knows the dangers of his actions. N btw I tell my hubby that if the kind of behaviors he teaches causes trouble, he will be the 1 to go to sch to explain to the teachers or parents. He can go tell them he was the 1 who taugh them to do that.
any suggestions of places to go? will you bring your #1 to play?
