dusty_gecko
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messy open house
cannot be tuesdays (so cannot be 15th sept) coz i'm usu at my mum's on tues. any other weekdays are fine.
mil
my mil should be fine about other mummies and babies coming over to make a mess. don't get me wrong, she is very nice to other pple. she just says not-so-nice things to me coz she doesn't think very well of me and thinks i'm not good enough for her son. (and it's just me. coz she loved the ex-gfs)
and though yes i do express occasionally how much i hate her at certain moments, i will try very hard to let that hate go away within the next few days. such negative thoughts eat at one's well-being.
so i'll tell myself things like "she is a mis-informed old woman. BUT i am the bigger person, with the bigger heart, and the smarter brain, and the selfless ego, and i'm definitely going to heaven coz i treat her with respect...." (a variation of michelle's skill) else how to survive facing her day in day out?
and it's not like if i hide in the room she will leave me alone. she will write what she wants to say on post-its and stick on my door. so sometimes when i open the door, there might be a few post-its stuck on it.... -_-
bbp
eh true, my place..... is still about 10mins' walk from nearest circle line mrt though. hmmmm.
steph
yes my mil likes to emphasize "i have thought about it" and "i have analyzed" and "i have had an uni education so i can think"
pomfret's porridge
as per suggestions from mummies here, i cook the porridge with either chicken or pork (after boiling them for a bit, then washing them before putting into the porridge) and a variation of baby spinach, carrot, cabbage, corn, broccoli, etc. pomfret doesn't like egg so much. doesn't like to eat meat (so meat is only for flavouring).
actually she doesn't like food very much. if i let her choose, she'd much prefer to be bosom buddies with my bosom. (which actually does grief me much)
CS
my pd is a gastro-something specialist. do you want to bring dani to see him? dr lim kwang hsien at kinderclinic at mt alvernia.
cannot be tuesdays (so cannot be 15th sept) coz i'm usu at my mum's on tues. any other weekdays are fine.
mil
my mil should be fine about other mummies and babies coming over to make a mess. don't get me wrong, she is very nice to other pple. she just says not-so-nice things to me coz she doesn't think very well of me and thinks i'm not good enough for her son. (and it's just me. coz she loved the ex-gfs)
and though yes i do express occasionally how much i hate her at certain moments, i will try very hard to let that hate go away within the next few days. such negative thoughts eat at one's well-being.
so i'll tell myself things like "she is a mis-informed old woman. BUT i am the bigger person, with the bigger heart, and the smarter brain, and the selfless ego, and i'm definitely going to heaven coz i treat her with respect...." (a variation of michelle's skill) else how to survive facing her day in day out?
and it's not like if i hide in the room she will leave me alone. she will write what she wants to say on post-its and stick on my door. so sometimes when i open the door, there might be a few post-its stuck on it.... -_-
bbp
eh true, my place..... is still about 10mins' walk from nearest circle line mrt though. hmmmm.
steph
yes my mil likes to emphasize "i have thought about it" and "i have analyzed" and "i have had an uni education so i can think"
pomfret's porridge
as per suggestions from mummies here, i cook the porridge with either chicken or pork (after boiling them for a bit, then washing them before putting into the porridge) and a variation of baby spinach, carrot, cabbage, corn, broccoli, etc. pomfret doesn't like egg so much. doesn't like to eat meat (so meat is only for flavouring).
actually she doesn't like food very much. if i let her choose, she'd much prefer to be bosom buddies with my bosom. (which actually does grief me much)
CS
my pd is a gastro-something specialist. do you want to bring dani to see him? dr lim kwang hsien at kinderclinic at mt alvernia.