privacy re family members poking around in the forum
this is my personal view ok, dun flame me. SG is a small place.. it is difficult to keep family members fm reading wat we write here, after all, the forum IS open to public view.
my SIL smtimes comes in also to seek support for her own home situation w her ILs, and then she ll shun bian read wat i write. smtimes i think that's how word gets to her bro (HB). but she is also mature enuf to know that i just need to vent.
one way might be not to use real name as your nick, and also refer to bb only infrequently by their full name, eg. C instead of Cedric... like i said, just my thots only ah.
....pssst. that's why Qing is keeping a list of the blogs instead of them being openly shared here.