celeste
hmm my hb's comment nothing to do with the maid. he just thinks that i m irritating when i say i m tired. even if i m not preggy, i still have the right to feel tired right. on sat, i know that he will be tired and i volunteered to drive the whole day though we usually take turns. and he takes his afternoon naps every sun whereas i dun. i spend my spare time packing stuff etc cos i can only do that when my son sleeps. then nowadays my son sleeps quite late at night cos my hb comes back late and will play with him. after my son sleeps at 10+ i still have to go and do my own work and end up sleeping late. so i really think he's too much when i only made a statement that i m tired. i din even do it in a complaining tone.
dustee
yah i can't sleep at night. i can't move on the bed cos it hurts a lot to move. a few times really pain till i wan to cry. it only gets better when i get up and even after i get up, i must hobble a while first before it wears off.
PB
u know what my hb will say if i say that? he will just say u better quickly deliver. he ever made such comment before when i said that the weight of the bb putting pressure and giving me pain. bb not even full term and he can say such things.
lbt, fiona
i think my hb is just too caught up in work. i dun even ask him to do much at home already. but he can be pretty inconsiderate in his remarks. sometimes i will say i m going to toilet, just look after our son. he will say why i always go toilet at the wrong time. these kind of things are pretty insensitive. and it's not that i dun wan to talk to him but he is so busy he doesn't wan to talk to me. whatever time he has, he use it for his own naps and work. that day we took leave to bring our son out, he was on the phone half the time. he spends more time talking to other pple than me lor. i can't make him see it.
even my son has started saying papa comes home late.
anyway, i always feel better after letting it out here. only women can understand.
fiona
i also got him breakfast yesteryda. was going to go and buy then he say order mcdonald's so i ordered for him lor. u know, we dun even sit down for one meal a week...that's how bad it is
hmm my hb's comment nothing to do with the maid. he just thinks that i m irritating when i say i m tired. even if i m not preggy, i still have the right to feel tired right. on sat, i know that he will be tired and i volunteered to drive the whole day though we usually take turns. and he takes his afternoon naps every sun whereas i dun. i spend my spare time packing stuff etc cos i can only do that when my son sleeps. then nowadays my son sleeps quite late at night cos my hb comes back late and will play with him. after my son sleeps at 10+ i still have to go and do my own work and end up sleeping late. so i really think he's too much when i only made a statement that i m tired. i din even do it in a complaining tone.
dustee
yah i can't sleep at night. i can't move on the bed cos it hurts a lot to move. a few times really pain till i wan to cry. it only gets better when i get up and even after i get up, i must hobble a while first before it wears off.
PB
u know what my hb will say if i say that? he will just say u better quickly deliver. he ever made such comment before when i said that the weight of the bb putting pressure and giving me pain. bb not even full term and he can say such things.
lbt, fiona
i think my hb is just too caught up in work. i dun even ask him to do much at home already. but he can be pretty inconsiderate in his remarks. sometimes i will say i m going to toilet, just look after our son. he will say why i always go toilet at the wrong time. these kind of things are pretty insensitive. and it's not that i dun wan to talk to him but he is so busy he doesn't wan to talk to me. whatever time he has, he use it for his own naps and work. that day we took leave to bring our son out, he was on the phone half the time. he spends more time talking to other pple than me lor. i can't make him see it.
even my son has started saying papa comes home late.
anyway, i always feel better after letting it out here. only women can understand.
fiona
i also got him breakfast yesteryda. was going to go and buy then he say order mcdonald's so i ordered for him lor. u know, we dun even sit down for one meal a week...that's how bad it is
