<font color="aa00aa">crystal, then i have to get myself a professional cert. haha.....
ND's girl, congrats! I know u r hvin mixture feeling now, but dont let it affect ur mood okie?!
Re: Feeling of neglect
No matter how close is ur kids gap, u'll sure feel neglected another child. Like now, i feel i neglected my #2, though she's sleeping with me. When i'm just had #1, whenever we went out, we'll bring her out.
And now with 2 kids, if we go for breakfast during weekend, we'll only bring #1 out only coz is hard to take care of 2 kids especially when i need to do marketing. Then coz of my #1's jealousy, we oso seldom carry #2. Another is my #1 know how to catch our attention and we tends to talk to her more.
So i was thinking if i compared the way and time we spend with our #1, i actually neglected my #2.
So, not neccessary u'll neglect #1 when u have #2 lor, sometimes might be vice versa.</font>