Sparks,
Ya, you are right. In fact, I was trying to ren the way they work in my office because they always taiji duties to me. Wanted to leave early next year, but because my director and overseas colleagues are good, also that I am try to conceive, I told my hubby and friends that I will TTC till end year, by CNY 2008 no good news, I will resign. If I suceeded, I will stay and turn two blind eyes to their private doings in office (they (local guys) brought lots of personal stuffs to office do, which seems more important then work we are paid for).
So now, I have the good news, I will stay, and also, at least my director will not afraid of me resigning (told him my plans). Unless I really be so blur sotong till everything do wrong, then I am sure they will ask me out, hehe. One thing for sure is that the local guys will not be happy coz they will have to help me carry and do heavy duties...
Well Sparks, we women can 'ren' so just turn a blind eye (or for my case, two blind eyes) from colleagues at work. Just take care of ourselves.
Ok, time to knock off now. Looking forward to my dinner!