Good morning ladies,
Zu-en, Don't worry so much ok? Wait for the scan 2 wks later. Sometimes baby will speed up their growth in the later stage. I know one mama in May thread, her baby also small, but within 1 wk, the weight suddenly shot up.
Ladies,
Thanks so much for the encouragement. Trying to stay positive and act blur at home loh. But I think I dunno how to put my sentences correctly in front of the counselor plus hubby ard, I don't dare to openly badmouth my MIL cos I scare he really gets put off. In the end the counselor said let MIL try. Haiz. That's why I really went to brainstorm for ways to get my MIL to surrender herself. So scared she'll bring up my child in the wrong way. I keep telling hubby I wanna put our gal in childcare by 18 mths, then he so worried of baby falling sick. I think the way my MIL handles her life, my baby prolly fall sick more often under her hands than childcare loh.
Ellysia, Yah, I read of your story before. Reminds me of my gf.. Her paternal grandma also caused alot of havoc in her house. When her mum gave birth to her bro, her paternal grandma went to tell her that her mum hates her, that's why they have another baby. Causing her to hate her mum when young. And her grandma very scary one, she'll teach her how to go against her own mum, buy those forbidden food like snacks for her and teach her to keep inside her drawer so that her mum dunno.
On top of that, she also sow discord between the couple. Her parents almost divorce becos of her grandma also.
I dunno why these ppl so evil. I keep on trying to comfort myself my MIL is not that bad. Cos everytime she always act naive in front of us. But time to time I witness her actions behind my back.
If something I did not pleasing to her eyes, honestly I wouldn't mind if she says out loud then to hold it and start gossiping abt me to hubby and FIL. Then hubby will keep quiet cos he will want to evaluate things himself. But once somethings strikes, he always brings up his mum says this and that. I feel so angry loh. And when we quarrel, my MIL will listen outside and later pretend to be peacemaker and tell my hubby to give in to me.
My hubby also very idiot one. WHen she does that and we quarrel over his mum, he said his mum got ask him to give in to me when we quarrel. Tell me don't think so negative of his mum. But if in the first place she don't add oil n vinegar, we wouldn't have quarrel. I feel that she's so fake loh.
So I learnt to counter her behavior nowadays. I choose not to quarrel so that she cannot be the "good guy" anymore. So when she bad mouths me again, hubby will stand up for me cos I always choose to leave his mum out of the pic. Her plan backfire so nowadays she gets back at me by giving black face n all the nonsense behavior loh. Tiring man, all the mind games n emotional battle...
I so scare all these battles later she'll involve my gal in. U know lah, children so innocent. Haiz...
Zu-en, Don't worry so much ok? Wait for the scan 2 wks later. Sometimes baby will speed up their growth in the later stage. I know one mama in May thread, her baby also small, but within 1 wk, the weight suddenly shot up.
Ladies,
Thanks so much for the encouragement. Trying to stay positive and act blur at home loh. But I think I dunno how to put my sentences correctly in front of the counselor plus hubby ard, I don't dare to openly badmouth my MIL cos I scare he really gets put off. In the end the counselor said let MIL try. Haiz. That's why I really went to brainstorm for ways to get my MIL to surrender herself. So scared she'll bring up my child in the wrong way. I keep telling hubby I wanna put our gal in childcare by 18 mths, then he so worried of baby falling sick. I think the way my MIL handles her life, my baby prolly fall sick more often under her hands than childcare loh.
Ellysia, Yah, I read of your story before. Reminds me of my gf.. Her paternal grandma also caused alot of havoc in her house. When her mum gave birth to her bro, her paternal grandma went to tell her that her mum hates her, that's why they have another baby. Causing her to hate her mum when young. And her grandma very scary one, she'll teach her how to go against her own mum, buy those forbidden food like snacks for her and teach her to keep inside her drawer so that her mum dunno.
On top of that, she also sow discord between the couple. Her parents almost divorce becos of her grandma also.
I dunno why these ppl so evil. I keep on trying to comfort myself my MIL is not that bad. Cos everytime she always act naive in front of us. But time to time I witness her actions behind my back.
If something I did not pleasing to her eyes, honestly I wouldn't mind if she says out loud then to hold it and start gossiping abt me to hubby and FIL. Then hubby will keep quiet cos he will want to evaluate things himself. But once somethings strikes, he always brings up his mum says this and that. I feel so angry loh. And when we quarrel, my MIL will listen outside and later pretend to be peacemaker and tell my hubby to give in to me.
My hubby also very idiot one. WHen she does that and we quarrel over his mum, he said his mum got ask him to give in to me when we quarrel. Tell me don't think so negative of his mum. But if in the first place she don't add oil n vinegar, we wouldn't have quarrel. I feel that she's so fake loh.
So I learnt to counter her behavior nowadays. I choose not to quarrel so that she cannot be the "good guy" anymore. So when she bad mouths me again, hubby will stand up for me cos I always choose to leave his mum out of the pic. Her plan backfire so nowadays she gets back at me by giving black face n all the nonsense behavior loh. Tiring man, all the mind games n emotional battle...
I so scare all these battles later she'll involve my gal in. U know lah, children so innocent. Haiz...
