moony,
dun worry, when the contractions come, you will surely know one. some like my frens can go thru pregnancy without any BH contractions at all.
piggy_mummy,
yes, its with a net covering inside. I have 2-3pieces cos still need to wash it. It will get wet on the inside also, but just that the waterproof covering outside prevents it from wetting your bed. Sometimes poo also gets onto it. So muz wash. Need to standby 2 pieces to interchange.
poky,
for me, tummy upset pain is just below my breasts, i tink where the stomach is? Cramps is lower lower down.
Re: 1st month
I also never go round distributing to relatives...aiyo...can faint ah, if need to do that. For my office, I brought my baby and brought along some muffins for them to eat. Cos some sales staff 'pantang', dun eat full mth things. So i jus take it like buying breakfast for them.