Tracy,
My boy is very attached to me although he dun get to see me everyday as most of the weekdays he stay at my in-law place and he sayang me a lot too, that day while shopping in Chinatown, we went to a shop which has a small little chair so I asked him to sit while i look a round in that shop. He seat a while then he called out for me. When I walked near him, he reached out his hand and pulled my hand. Then he said "Come mummy, you are tired, your turn to sit down." **touch**
. He will even comes to my defend if my hubby tease me. The thing is he is the first grandchild for both hubby and my family and he is the youngest for both side too so both side family dote on him a lot. The worse part is from last week onwards, he suddenly want to sleep with me whenever i bring him home, he will tell hubby, "today i sleeping with my mummy". He used to sleep in his own bed in his own room. My mum and mil said is natural for him to grab attention now as didi is coming.. haha. So now trying to make any problem/conflict/commotions to the minimum for my older boy.
~~My older boy ways of "defending" me~~
Me: Who is in my tummy? Didi or meimei?
my boy: Didi
Me: Then you are korkor or jiejie?
my boy: I am korkor.
Me: Then what about papa? Who is papa?
my boy: Papa is a pig. (Hubby heard it)
Hubby: What about mummy?
my boy: Mummy is girl.
(Hubby said i brain wash Kiern... He keep trying to input "Mummy is an elephant" into my boy but sadly he failed.)
Then 2 days ago, hubby said to my boy, mummy is big fat pig right? Then my boy said no mummy is not then hubby repeat again then he got angry and shout at his father, "mummy is not big fat pig, you are a big fat pig!"