Hi celine, dun worry, u are not the oldest. Me in my early thurties and expecting my 1st one. Have been married for coming 5 years. Actually I originally had no intention to have children, but changed my mind last year, so started trying this year.
My MIL said she will help to take care, she even said she will get a maid for us and come over everyday, instead of us bringing the baby over. But dunno if this confirmed or not, guess will settle at a later date.