hi hi..
for me, i kept patting n singing to him, and offering him the milk bottle instead of latching.. definitely they will throw tantrums.. just what type and the extent of it, and how long they persevere before we give in.. remember, they always want to test our limits.. but slowly as the days go by, they will get used to it, and take the bottle without much struggle.. i think i struggled with C for maybe 3-4 days.. same like u, 1st day also give in.. haha..
i also latch her on bed before sleeping.. so i offer bottle when lying down..
re: engorgement
my aunt told me just endure for 3 days, then the supply will just stop.. so i tried that, but can't work at all for me! in the end, i just had engorged breasts for 3 days! in the end, i expressed everything out, then my breast went v soft, and stayed like tat till now! i didn;t take medication because i heard that the breasts will shrink more.. but same also la.. no medication, breasts also shrink.. sad la!