esther
dun be scared, i do bring bb out q often myself cos i SAHM mah, can't always wait for hubby (some more sometimes he q busy) before taking bb, otherwise bb will be so deprived, haha.. but i usu go when convenient, like after a nap, after feed, etc. and more so if i'm going to meet friends whom i know can help out a bit (otherwise want to go toilet also troublesome!).
sunny/jass
your PILs so nice! it's not easy for old pple to try out "new" ways.. i'm lucky my parents also stay near me and my mum and i on same wavelength on bringing up bbs, but altho i live with ILs, now that i'm going back to work my MIL yest say they can only help to look after my bb once a week at most, cos they already looking after my nephew 12 hrs a day.. but i a bit worried cos my father q hands off and got no maid so not sure if my mum can handle on her own.. maybe need to get a maid to help her liao.