garfield, eh I hate ginger leh, still hated it even just after I pop
jaslyn, hurting yr bb's neck is prob the last thing u will do, trust me. When yr precious bb is in yr arms, you'll instinctively never let yr bb's neck drop and get hurt wan.
stephie, yar I'll be on my own after hb goes back to work after 1 week leave. Actually the reason we waited till now to have bb no 2 is so that I'll be able to cope better. The age gap between the 2 kids will be 3.5yo so I think shd be fine. So far my DD has participated fully in my pregnancy, when I did my preggie test kit, I bought 3 sticks and saved the last one to do together with her after she came home from sch haha. I also bought her several books about pregnancy (simplified, written for kids version), body changes in the mummy, wat to expect, how bbs will be like when they are small, their needs and how older siblings can participate/help out so on. I think these shd help, I'm trying to stay v positive.
BTW how old is yr older child?
diaper bag- Hmmm come to think of it, I've never owned a single diaper bag! Of cos I had big bags to carry bb stuff when bb is still small and need to bring out alot of bb stuff, but all my big bags are regular big-sized bag, not real diaper bags. So far so good.