happy/kitsune/bluegin/snowbelle, thanks for the compliments
bluegin, i have very small eyes la... jerome's eyes are like my hubby's. the powder i never use cos i wash my hair on alternate days. i can give u mine if u want... only used b4 once.
casa, my MIL only comes from morn to noon daily so other than that i'm left to look after my bb alone. not reali a problem... juz feed when he's hungry, change diapers when he poos, other than that he is sleeping. only thing is i don reali get to rest as much as i'm supposed to.
re: bb crying near breast
actually bb may be crying because he is too anxious to drink. my bb is like that. he cries louder than ever when he is near my breast. sometimes when he is already hungry, he cries when i carry him from someone else cos he can smell the milk on me. so, look on the positive side... bb is excited to drink.
re: rashes during confinement
my confinement is really full of bumps. after the high fever, now both my legs are covered with scary looking itchy rashes. doc says it's just an allergy, gave me some cream and medicine. but it's so itchy i juz have the urge to scratch!
re: bb regurgitating milk
when hb bottlefed bb with ebm, he didn't regurgitate any milk. but every single time(in recent days) that i latched him on, he will make a lot of noise and stop suckling every few minutes and he will regurgitate a lot of milk out. quite worried about this. he will drink less than 10 mins in total, yet it seems to keep him full for the next 2-3 hours where he will cry for his next feed.
re: unhappy confinement
had a good sleep last nite cos hb looked after bb so today finally have energy to "inspect" the house. found that MIL made my kitchen very dirty. spent a few hours scrubbing and cleaning up. very very unhappy with her and the only one i can complain to is my hb. yet, sometimes i feel bad complaining to him cos i know i'm giving him stress. there are a million things i'm unhappy about yet i cannot tell her off straight. i really wish i never ever asked her to come and help... and guess what, i found a cotton bud stuck in my bb's diaper yesterday. she left it there while changing his diapers. imagine it could have been poking him all day. she is so careless, dirty and irresponsible!