xy,
That maid is horrible! How did your sister find out? And how old are your nieces and nephew?
Iso,
Rgdg cloth diapering, since she can keep her diapers dry most of the time, even got accident also should be once and not twice right? Then I think should be able to hold cos for my son (who's coming 5 and I'm assuming his urine is definitely more than a 2 yo), when he has accidents, the bed not wet leh. I find inserts uncomfortable, I used it once on my son and he refused to wear it, now left with so many inserts and some even brand new! Nothing beats the old traditional cloth nappies ;-)