(2008/01) Jan 2008 MTBs
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babynikkiong
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pixie
hmm.. ok chiong ah!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL. thanks for sharing!
grumpus
ok CHIONG AH!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL..
hahaha.. u see lah, wendy.. stealing from your unattended farm is as important as saving on milk powder!!! LOL
hmm.. ok chiong ah!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL. thanks for sharing!
grumpus
ok CHIONG AH!!!!!!!!!!!! LOL..
hahaha.. u see lah, wendy.. stealing from your unattended farm is as important as saving on milk powder!!! LOL
kitsune_sg
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Kam, how big/heavy is the book? Is it possible to post? I'll send you SAE. If not, when are you going to TMC next? My 20th week scan and appt is on 24 July, see whether can bump into you there? Otherwise, is there any day/time where you'll be going to town or east coast? I'll meet you there.
Haha, NTUC also having offer for Friso3, 2 900g tins for $35.95. Told hubby and he don't want to buy cos we stock up too much already.
Haha, NTUC also having offer for Friso3, 2 900g tins for $35.95. Told hubby and he don't want to buy cos we stock up too much already.
kitsune_sg
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Aqua, thanks, I also think like not very cheap but can't remember the old price that I bought. Hee hee.
HF
Eh, can someone tell me if you harvest flowers, can you gain coins and experience? I realise that flowers cannot be stolen.
HF
Eh, can someone tell me if you harvest flowers, can you gain coins and experience? I realise that flowers cannot be stolen.
jess__thomas
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Re: enfagrow
wah.. serious? i chiong there tonite liao...
wah.. serious? i chiong there tonite liao...
kitsune_sg
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mylvera, think it's FB problem. I also have the same problem if trying to log into me and hubby's acounts to access different game applications. Always get the error message.
kitsune_sg
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Kam, I'm at Tampines, the other end of the island. My hubby is very bad at navigation and one of my pet peeves so I will not ask him to drive me to your place unless I exhaust all options.
kitsune_sg
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Aiyah, you came here last weekend ah? Ya, went to read your blog, you went to Pasir Ris Park right? Yes, it's very peaceful there, hubby prefers it to East Coast Park cos it's very quiet. We used to 'pak tor' and have picnics there too. Hubby just decided yesterday to name our no. 2 as Raelee. Don't know why he suddenly changed his mind from Raelynn also. So now I'm trying to find a chinese name that matches and stroke count is good. Ok, sure, you let me know. Thanks.
Kam,
Go for natural w/o epi if you can!! Jiayou!! I am planning to do that since #1 already tried liao. But this time round, I got a bit concern coz #2 is slightly bigger than #1. Then hoh, my gynae sounds very confident in me that I can tahan the pain. He said only slightly bigger so I see no issue for you. I nearly faint... Now I stressed too. Like if I take epi, then it is a sin like that... But I still wish to try. Now can only wait for #2 to cooperate and turn head down loh.
Go for natural w/o epi if you can!! Jiayou!! I am planning to do that since #1 already tried liao. But this time round, I got a bit concern coz #2 is slightly bigger than #1. Then hoh, my gynae sounds very confident in me that I can tahan the pain. He said only slightly bigger so I see no issue for you. I nearly faint... Now I stressed too. Like if I take epi, then it is a sin like that... But I still wish to try. Now can only wait for #2 to cooperate and turn head down loh.
kitsune_sg
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Pixie, don't know leh. When I ask him Raelynn or Raelee, he said Raelee wor. But I promised myself that I'll let him name no. 2 so I won't interfere lor. But ah, yesterday when I went to register RaeAnne for playgroup, the teacher asked why Kay Ris is 祺慧, I couldn't answer lor except tell the teacher that it was hubby's decision and I already told him many times that people will think that Kay Ris is Qili not Qihui. But he thinks Kay Hwee or Kay We doesn't sound as nice as Kay Ris. I grumbled to him that just playgroup, teacher also questioned, next time, me and my gal got to answer the same question at nursery, kindergarten, primary school, secondary school, JC, uni etc etc.
Now, maybe he decided to 'compensate' by naming mei mei Raelee cos he actually wanted to name mei mei 祺俐 and it also doesn't match with Raelynn. I also don't understand his rationale.
Now, maybe he decided to 'compensate' by naming mei mei Raelee cos he actually wanted to name mei mei 祺俐 and it also doesn't match with Raelynn. I also don't understand his rationale.
kitsune: heee, actualli qihui should be kay hwee rite? to be logical, the dialect name shld be direct translated from chinese words...
some parents juz wan to name their child v classic names to save explantions! if the child name is unique, u juz gotta to explain n clarify their doubts lor. heeee
i like raelynne too.. like v sweet n ladylike, i always like a 'lyn' word but my hubby surname is LIM, cant name my girl xx-lynn.
some parents juz wan to name their child v classic names to save explantions! if the child name is unique, u juz gotta to explain n clarify their doubts lor. heeee
i like raelynne too.. like v sweet n ladylike, i always like a 'lyn' word but my hubby surname is LIM, cant name my girl xx-lynn.
kitsune_sg
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eNemum, aqua, I told him about 'Really, Raelee too?' cos mylife warned me. Aiyah, but I also don't want to veto the names that he choose if he insist. That's why need Kam's book to help convince him. Especially if I can find a nice chinese name (with correct strokes) for Qilin. Maybe he'll be convinced to use Raelynn lor. But I also scared Qilin sounds like Kirin beer or the mystical chinese creature. Hee. ;P
He finds Kay Hwee not international enough lor, he said sounds very dialect, other races or caucasian will not be able to pronouce. I told him actually can use Kay We mah at least we sounds like hwee, even ang moh can pronounce but he's so proud of his Kay Ris after cracking his brains for a few hours. What can I say? I also want him to have a sense of pride that he named his first born lar cos I already choose the English name and Chinese name.
He finds Kay Hwee not international enough lor, he said sounds very dialect, other races or caucasian will not be able to pronouce. I told him actually can use Kay We mah at least we sounds like hwee, even ang moh can pronounce but he's so proud of his Kay Ris after cracking his brains for a few hours. What can I say? I also want him to have a sense of pride that he named his first born lar cos I already choose the English name and Chinese name.
kitsune_sg
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Pixie, my hubby once said that he wanted to name our kids Teo Ba Beow, Teo Toto. I also say he 'seow'. Haha.
kitsune_sg
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Aqua, no leh, got to use qi cos I want same character as cheh cheh.
Mummies,
I dunno what's wrong with me. Secretly cried last evening when i saw my son & tried very hard to cover up. Think my mum, CL & hubby saw it but dun dare to ask me.
I felt that i have neglected him this whole week as was back home doing my confinement & unable to bring him overnite. When my hubby sent them back, i broke down in the room again. Now think liao, find myself veri silly but can feel the teary heat again. Hai, how cum i so weak now.. so emotional.. veri scare i got post natal blues.
My boy is even more sticky to my mum now. This made me very sad when he came home, he will stay close to my mum, like scare she run away. Somemore i can't even carry him. Really hope this confinement mth pass asap...and everything go back to normal..
Mummies that going to have #2 soon, muz make gd arrangement for #1 ok. It will be gd not to separate #1 & #2. Cos sure will be very upset like me ;(
I dunno what's wrong with me. Secretly cried last evening when i saw my son & tried very hard to cover up. Think my mum, CL & hubby saw it but dun dare to ask me.
I felt that i have neglected him this whole week as was back home doing my confinement & unable to bring him overnite. When my hubby sent them back, i broke down in the room again. Now think liao, find myself veri silly but can feel the teary heat again. Hai, how cum i so weak now.. so emotional.. veri scare i got post natal blues.
My boy is even more sticky to my mum now. This made me very sad when he came home, he will stay close to my mum, like scare she run away. Somemore i can't even carry him. Really hope this confinement mth pass asap...and everything go back to normal..
Mummies that going to have #2 soon, muz make gd arrangement for #1 ok. It will be gd not to separate #1 & #2. Cos sure will be very upset like me ;(
angelwind
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janbb
dont worry about it
my son with my mil mon-fri, when i go back and visit, he will not want me to hold him if he is crying or whining, he will ask my mil to hold him...
but during weekends, he is very sticky with me
i think they are all like that at this time....
for your #2, you got no choice but to do this so dont blame yourself. this is the best logistic solution given the circumstances so not your fault leh...i oso cried when my bb rejected me initially when he started to stay with my mil...but after a while i got used to it liao. they got short memory and wont remember if you got take good care of him or not.
it is your expectations of your level of care on your kids that you feel that you have failed. lower your expectations so that life does not seemed so tough
dont fall into the well of depression coz once you spiral down, takes a long time to climb up yah
jia you and *hugs*
dont worry about it
my son with my mil mon-fri, when i go back and visit, he will not want me to hold him if he is crying or whining, he will ask my mil to hold him...
but during weekends, he is very sticky with me
i think they are all like that at this time....
for your #2, you got no choice but to do this so dont blame yourself. this is the best logistic solution given the circumstances so not your fault leh...i oso cried when my bb rejected me initially when he started to stay with my mil...but after a while i got used to it liao. they got short memory and wont remember if you got take good care of him or not.
it is your expectations of your level of care on your kids that you feel that you have failed. lower your expectations so that life does not seemed so tough
dont fall into the well of depression coz once you spiral down, takes a long time to climb up yah
jia you and *hugs*
blackbatz
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Jan BB,
Don't get too up tight..
It takes some time for the children to get used to all the changes around them. They are stressed and scared as well. Remember to make some quiet time for #1 solely..That will give him the assurance and security.
Initially, my #2 is also not used to seeing my mum carrying my sister's baby. After two to three weeks, he's now used to it.
Don't get too up tight..
It takes some time for the children to get used to all the changes around them. They are stressed and scared as well. Remember to make some quiet time for #1 solely..That will give him the assurance and security.
Initially, my #2 is also not used to seeing my mum carrying my sister's baby. After two to three weeks, he's now used to it.
janbb,
dun worry too much. i had the same feeling like u when i deliver #2. even now my #1 dun really wana sleep with me during weekdays but when he knows my ILs not ard, who he shd "teh" to lor. most imptly is to keep yr feeling up. e moment u are down, yr milk ss will drop too. do u wan to let yr #2 drink FM instead? dun neglect #2 as she needs yr attentiveness. #1 is old enuf n more ppl ard u will b willing to take care of him but #2 nids yr attention n milk leh
dun worry too much. i had the same feeling like u when i deliver #2. even now my #1 dun really wana sleep with me during weekdays but when he knows my ILs not ard, who he shd "teh" to lor. most imptly is to keep yr feeling up. e moment u are down, yr milk ss will drop too. do u wan to let yr #2 drink FM instead? dun neglect #2 as she needs yr attentiveness. #1 is old enuf n more ppl ard u will b willing to take care of him but #2 nids yr attention n milk leh
kitsune_sg
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JanBB, I also very scared and bu she de to put RaeAnne at ILs place at night, that's why hiring a maid before no. 2 arrives so that I can keep both by my side. I'll be having a CL somemore. A lot of expenses but bo bian, RaeAnne is very close to me as I'm SAHM. Every night, she must sleep with me and 'feel' my presence before she guai guai sleep.
Don't think too much and endure this period. You are doing your confinement so really must rest well. You cannot possibly to look after two and have proper rest mah? Don't worry, confinement period will be over soon and your boy will still be your boy. Once you bring him back, he'll be fighting for your attention again.
Don't think too much and endure this period. You are doing your confinement so really must rest well. You cannot possibly to look after two and have proper rest mah? Don't worry, confinement period will be over soon and your boy will still be your boy. Once you bring him back, he'll be fighting for your attention again.
kitsune_sg
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Kam, I think I found a better website for name stroke calculation. You want to try it? http://www.xingming.net/
