(2008/01) Jan 2008 MTBs
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Princess 81
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Hi Kam,
ELias also not very serious. The Fucicort/elomet. apply one time liao very effective stop itching and scratching but I really dun like the idea of such a young child applying that steriod base cream.
Yes, If one parent has ezzmea/ asmatha must really be extra careful as the child will be more prone then.. BUt again, organic is still the best but really ex to maintain. Even Hyproallergic is not enough for my boy.
He is better now after introdcing organic stuff.. FOr the steriod base cream only apply if the ezeema is very serious if not I never like applying those even how effective it may be. Cos ezemma comes and goes one. And also he is very prone to heat rash somemore.. Like me. lah.. hiaz
ELias also not very serious. The Fucicort/elomet. apply one time liao very effective stop itching and scratching but I really dun like the idea of such a young child applying that steriod base cream.
Yes, If one parent has ezzmea/ asmatha must really be extra careful as the child will be more prone then.. BUt again, organic is still the best but really ex to maintain. Even Hyproallergic is not enough for my boy.
He is better now after introdcing organic stuff.. FOr the steriod base cream only apply if the ezeema is very serious if not I never like applying those even how effective it may be. Cos ezemma comes and goes one. And also he is very prone to heat rash somemore.. Like me. lah.. hiaz
Princess 81
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Oh ya.. I had a great time at Malcca. Good makan and shopping place.. QUite cheap also.. tot of bringing ELias along but due to swane flu.. decide to wait till he turns 2 then go somewhere maybe HK disneyland ?? haha??
We plan to go again to have couple time in July since its our wedding anniversary 3rd year so not bad idea going there for 2 nites and have fun too? haha cos this trip one nite not enough lah.. haha.. cant get enough of the fantastic nonya food lah! Yummy!!!!!!!!!!!!
We plan to go again to have couple time in July since its our wedding anniversary 3rd year so not bad idea going there for 2 nites and have fun too? haha cos this trip one nite not enough lah.. haha.. cant get enough of the fantastic nonya food lah! Yummy!!!!!!!!!!!!
kitsune_sg
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Kam, just curious, does the no. 2 nephew like to to play with anyone else even if he doesn't like to play with his gor gor? Did your SIL ever send her no. 2 to professional to rule out autism? http://www.kkh.com.sg/PatientHealthLibrary/ChildrensHealth/GrowingUp/Autism.htm?
Haha, JanBB, usually after giving birth, I look my worst, cos of lack of sleep and BF through the night. Maybe a few months later, when I get into the swing of things.
QQ, better to use marble or Swiss for harbour ah? I think I'll tahan for another half a day and see how before moving back to town. Harbour got a lot of pirate mouses that give gold right?
Haha, JanBB, usually after giving birth, I look my worst, cos of lack of sleep and BF through the night. Maybe a few months later, when I get into the swing of things.
QQ, better to use marble or Swiss for harbour ah? I think I'll tahan for another half a day and see how before moving back to town. Harbour got a lot of pirate mouses that give gold right?
kitsune_sg
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Mylvera, I don't read wiki cos too complicated, I follow this one instead, given by Wendy I think. http://mhguide.blogspot.com/
kitsune_sg
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hehe, yup, I'm thinking of sounding horn 1 more time before getting my lunch too. Super lazy to go out but heard Kiddy palace got 20% off for members so maybe later go out and get my stroller hooks lar. 
angelwind
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mylvera
if she can hold the bb (bb out of nicu) then most prob urge her to latch on. else, get her to get into the swing of action by manual pump first. avent manual is good for encouraging bm flow. the electric one good for established flow (imho), so let her try baby steps first bah...
bring the whole works and what not over, she dont want to use oso bo bian...so a compact manual should be alright for her bah...
most impt is she must have the right attitude to bfeed
kitsune
that sounds like a rushed wedding.
mine was - got steady together, proposed marriage, and gotten married all within 3months. super fast too
if she can hold the bb (bb out of nicu) then most prob urge her to latch on. else, get her to get into the swing of action by manual pump first. avent manual is good for encouraging bm flow. the electric one good for established flow (imho), so let her try baby steps first bah...
bring the whole works and what not over, she dont want to use oso bo bian...so a compact manual should be alright for her bah...
most impt is she must have the right attitude to bfeed
kitsune
that sounds like a rushed wedding.
mine was - got steady together, proposed marriage, and gotten married all within 3months. super fast too
Wendy,
Login everyday for the ingredient and answer the quiz right. I started much earlier when I only have 3 friends in RC.
pixie,
Yah, hb scare that later I can handle 2 even with some of the mil help. He also scare of taking care of 2 when he come back from home. I called it bonding and he seeemd to treat it like chore. He also scare that that means for the next 3-4 yrs no personal life, no tour and all.. Scare I cant handle 2 and become depressed and unhappy.
Perhaps another yr is better, but i just hate it when we already agree to the plan and suddenly he change of mind.
Kam, angelsky
Me and my bro age gap of 10 yrs.. we also kind of not close until we are older now. But I never understand him.
Kitsune,cheryl
Cannot stand man leh, suddenly cold feet and ran off. Suddenly make me think if he is ready or not. They are scare of the hard work.
Superbee,
Keeping restaurant all the time will earn coins and exp. Closing it will only let u a max of 2000 coins. Exp can let u have more staff and bigger restaurant.
Tips:
1. intially when u dun have enough coins, just rest ur staff when they reach 75%. Else they are not efficent and popularity will drop. Popularity max is 50. more popularity, more customers.
2. Close rstaurant by placing a furniture at the door and rest ur employees.
3. Ingredient is impt, log in everytday to get 1, visit new friend also get 1
4. Answer the quiz correctly. Open another window by the side with the answer (RC forum have it, http://forum.playfish.com/showthread.php?t=529150) Then when the quiz pop up, quickly type in the keyword and get th answer then click on it. U only have 10 seconds.
5. Concentrate on lvl 1 dish in each catagory, the rest can keep for trade. that way, u can lvl up faster. Higher lvl dishes give u higher exp.
6. all the furniture and stove acts the same way, so invest into the lower end first, u can start upgrading when u are over higher lvl with lots of extra coins.
janbb,
Yeah, seemed like the more u want, the harder to get.
Login everyday for the ingredient and answer the quiz right. I started much earlier when I only have 3 friends in RC.
pixie,
Yah, hb scare that later I can handle 2 even with some of the mil help. He also scare of taking care of 2 when he come back from home. I called it bonding and he seeemd to treat it like chore. He also scare that that means for the next 3-4 yrs no personal life, no tour and all.. Scare I cant handle 2 and become depressed and unhappy.
Perhaps another yr is better, but i just hate it when we already agree to the plan and suddenly he change of mind.
Kam, angelsky
Me and my bro age gap of 10 yrs.. we also kind of not close until we are older now. But I never understand him.
Kitsune,cheryl
Cannot stand man leh, suddenly cold feet and ran off. Suddenly make me think if he is ready or not. They are scare of the hard work.
Superbee,
Keeping restaurant all the time will earn coins and exp. Closing it will only let u a max of 2000 coins. Exp can let u have more staff and bigger restaurant.
Tips:
1. intially when u dun have enough coins, just rest ur staff when they reach 75%. Else they are not efficent and popularity will drop. Popularity max is 50. more popularity, more customers.
2. Close rstaurant by placing a furniture at the door and rest ur employees.
3. Ingredient is impt, log in everytday to get 1, visit new friend also get 1
4. Answer the quiz correctly. Open another window by the side with the answer (RC forum have it, http://forum.playfish.com/showthread.php?t=529150) Then when the quiz pop up, quickly type in the keyword and get th answer then click on it. U only have 10 seconds.
5. Concentrate on lvl 1 dish in each catagory, the rest can keep for trade. that way, u can lvl up faster. Higher lvl dishes give u higher exp.
6. all the furniture and stove acts the same way, so invest into the lower end first, u can start upgrading when u are over higher lvl with lots of extra coins.
janbb,
Yeah, seemed like the more u want, the harder to get.
kitsune_sg
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Icy, for my hubby, very easy to convince him, now I SAHM, if now don't chop chop and 'seh' then he got to support me even longer cos I won't want to go back to work until I have no. 2 and both of them are toddlers. Somemore, RaeAnne missed out on the govt goodies so don't have CDA account. She'll be starting school soon, when no. 2 is born, we'll have $6k CDA account, just nice for RaeAnne to use if we need to send her to CC. In the end, my hubby very practical one, must appeal to his rational/financial side. hoho.
Anyway, he want to have cold feet also cannot, cos we strike on first try this time. Hee.
Cheryl, if my hubby say that I'll be very angry. Ask me to look after myself, then he simply bo chap. Can but I'll tell him then next time, when the kid grow up then he/she don't call you papa lor. Only mama want you, since papa don't want you and don't want to look after you. Parenthood is a shared responsibility, cannot say until like that? But important to have good communication lar, discuss and decide when you want to wait until. If both of you decide 3 years gap is good, then go for it lor.
Anyway, he want to have cold feet also cannot, cos we strike on first try this time. Hee.
Cheryl, if my hubby say that I'll be very angry. Ask me to look after myself, then he simply bo chap. Can but I'll tell him then next time, when the kid grow up then he/she don't call you papa lor. Only mama want you, since papa don't want you and don't want to look after you. Parenthood is a shared responsibility, cannot say until like that? But important to have good communication lar, discuss and decide when you want to wait until. If both of you decide 3 years gap is good, then go for it lor.
Agree with pixie,
If hubby not ready to have #2, next time he sure have thousands of excuse not to help out. Try & have a gd talk with hubby, list out the pros & cons of having #2 with him. If wait too long, got to start all over again is even more sian. If start now, at least "suffer" at one go. By then #1 & #2 is near 4-5yo, can relax a bit.
Think i'm the opposite one, it was my hubby that hope to have #2 so fast. Even my #1 was part of his family plan. So i can "bully" him & call the shots when i need him to do this & that for me & baby, haha.
If hubby not ready to have #2, next time he sure have thousands of excuse not to help out. Try & have a gd talk with hubby, list out the pros & cons of having #2 with him. If wait too long, got to start all over again is even more sian. If start now, at least "suffer" at one go. By then #1 & #2 is near 4-5yo, can relax a bit.
Think i'm the opposite one, it was my hubby that hope to have #2 so fast. Even my #1 was part of his family plan. So i can "bully" him & call the shots when i need him to do this & that for me & baby, haha.
kitsune_sg
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Cheryl, yup, already decided to try out maid option first. If maid no good or doesn't work then will explore other options eg. send no. 1 to ILs or send to CC or I go over to their place everyday. See how lor.
angelwind
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janbb
my hb wants #2 now. coz we both agree on not a big age gap between #1 and #2. but he is hesitant about the $$. i doubt we have a problem with that as long as we are prudent in our daily life/saving.
he is super onz in taking care of my boy now, i wanna go out he oso scold me, say my heart not with my boy etc etc...
initially never wanted to take care of my boy, i nag and nag in smh jan08 thread. now he wants to take care so much until super extreme. he takes 15months to warm up! muahahah
my hb wants #2 now. coz we both agree on not a big age gap between #1 and #2. but he is hesitant about the $$. i doubt we have a problem with that as long as we are prudent in our daily life/saving.
he is super onz in taking care of my boy now, i wanna go out he oso scold me, say my heart not with my boy etc etc...
initially never wanted to take care of my boy, i nag and nag in smh jan08 thread. now he wants to take care so much until super extreme. he takes 15months to warm up! muahahah
Princess 81
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Enemum,
I went last Friday.. now malcca.. changed a lot.. got quite a lot of new stuff liao.. makan is good.. Of cos KL better lah.. but just for a new change mah.. haha
I went last Friday.. now malcca.. changed a lot.. got quite a lot of new stuff liao.. makan is good.. Of cos KL better lah.. but just for a new change mah.. haha
Icy / cheryl:
Ask your hubby what's putting him off and what's he is worrying, and reassure him what you are confidence at and you can do and how you can do. If he is really not ready to have #2, really no point pushing him now. Have a good chat and to reach to a mutual agreement
Kitsune,
You are absolutely right. I started to suspect my #2 nephew may have autism, after I visited them a few weeks ago. But my brother and SIL don't really worry. It's me and my mum who got worry. I will go and read more about autism and see how should I talk to my brother. He is one weird kid. For my mum, who has experience taking care of about 10 kids (her own and others), she said she has never see kid like this, my mum also gave up already :-( Until now, my #2 nephew never look into my eyes and communicates with me, let alone call me Gugu. My #1 nephew on the other hand, is a brilliant kid, and love him as much as my Hao Re!
Ask your hubby what's putting him off and what's he is worrying, and reassure him what you are confidence at and you can do and how you can do. If he is really not ready to have #2, really no point pushing him now. Have a good chat and to reach to a mutual agreement
Kitsune,
You are absolutely right. I started to suspect my #2 nephew may have autism, after I visited them a few weeks ago. But my brother and SIL don't really worry. It's me and my mum who got worry. I will go and read more about autism and see how should I talk to my brother. He is one weird kid. For my mum, who has experience taking care of about 10 kids (her own and others), she said she has never see kid like this, my mum also gave up already :-( Until now, my #2 nephew never look into my eyes and communicates with me, let alone call me Gugu. My #1 nephew on the other hand, is a brilliant kid, and love him as much as my Hao Re!
Princess 81
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Crystal.
Why your hubby like that one? We cant have a kid alone mah... It takes 2 to clap.. How can he say such a thing.. SO riduclous!
And its a shared responsibiliy. If me, I sure will get mad. Dun want have dun have lah. Plan a 3-4 years if not preapred lah... Alamak!!!!!!!
Why your hubby like that one? We cant have a kid alone mah... It takes 2 to clap.. How can he say such a thing.. SO riduclous!
And its a shared responsibiliy. If me, I sure will get mad. Dun want have dun have lah. Plan a 3-4 years if not preapred lah... Alamak!!!!!!!
kitsune_sg
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Kam, ya better nag your brother cos if it's really autism, they need early diagnosis and intervention to help them reach their full potential instead of ignoring the situation. Hiaz, but I understand also, 'huang di bu ji, ji shi tai jian'. If both your bro and SIL are in denial, how can outsiders intervene? But in the end, it's the boy that suffers cos nobody understands him, next time go to school, how? Very poor thing lor. At least, must go for evaluation, if he turns out not to be autistic, everyone also happy right?
pixie,
Good to hear that. Since your hubby is in good hands now, hurry TTC #2, heehee ; )
Actually, frankly find that #2 dun nid to spend as much $$$ as #1 cos most stuff can recycle. Plus the CDA fund will help in the first few yrs & tax relief.
Talking abt tax, my hubby is very upset cos my #1 supposed to be Jan baby but cum out early in dec. When we were filing our taxes, he realised we MISSED the TAX REBATE for not being Jan 08 Parent, sob sob. I consoled him by telling him "baby safety is most impt mah". Next yr with #2, he can claim all as he wish ; )
Good to hear that. Since your hubby is in good hands now, hurry TTC #2, heehee ; )
Actually, frankly find that #2 dun nid to spend as much $$$ as #1 cos most stuff can recycle. Plus the CDA fund will help in the first few yrs & tax relief.
Talking abt tax, my hubby is very upset cos my #1 supposed to be Jan baby but cum out early in dec. When we were filing our taxes, he realised we MISSED the TAX REBATE for not being Jan 08 Parent, sob sob. I consoled him by telling him "baby safety is most impt mah". Next yr with #2, he can claim all as he wish ; )
kitsune_sg
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wendy, you r back again. Lunch time now hor?
I ended up at secret recipe, wanted to order the irish lamb stew but my mum forbid me to eat mutton or lamb when pregnant. Sian. End up ordering grilled chicken, so boring.
I ended up at secret recipe, wanted to order the irish lamb stew but my mum forbid me to eat mutton or lamb when pregnant. Sian. End up ordering grilled chicken, so boring.
kitsune_sg
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wendy, mylvera, i really felt like eating lor but everytime my hubby will make me feel guilty. Plus i honest wife, last time i bad mood at work, went to eat sashimi when pregnant with raeanne at lunch time also sms him to tell him. End up he told me to put more wasabi to kill germs. Haha. Pineapple, i only eat cooked ones now.
wendy,
haha nope. I think at most play 1hr+ then he dun want already. $4 for $1hr good. I havent bring him go there and play even tho I stay in pasir ris.
Anyway think I will bring him to wild wild wet and play next week. Xavier actually loves water on the first try, his daddy carry him and swing him midway in the water, made him swallow some water and now he is a bit scare.
haha nope. I think at most play 1hr+ then he dun want already. $4 for $1hr good. I havent bring him go there and play even tho I stay in pasir ris.
Anyway think I will bring him to wild wild wet and play next week.
Xavier actually loves water on the first try, his daddy carry him and swing him midway in the water, made him swallow some water and now he is a bit scare.
kitsune_sg
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icy, if valid for june school hols then i'm keen. Ü
oh ya, i have 2 of those at home. Used to use it for my electrical thermos pot but now with baby, whole day also need hot water so end up not using it liao. Dun know whether i still remember how to set the timer or not?
oh ya, i have 2 of those at home. Used to use it for my electrical thermos pot but now with baby, whole day also need hot water so end up not using it liao. Dun know whether i still remember how to set the timer or not?
kitsune_sg
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hehe, correct, but should be beautiful coral not mountain. Why? U finally found someone who knows me from hall 4?
wendyg,
Really ah? Okay, must think now how to talk to my brother. Called my mum just now, and yes, she said she started to think it's autism also. No family history in my family and my SIL's family. But for my SIL side, though they also have 4 children, but all of them, include the parents, all very quiet type, except 1 sister. All won't say much, you talk to them also 1 answer to 1 question type. My SIL's mum is bad, he commented my #2 nephew will be a "ya ba" (can't talk), that makes my SIL hates her own mum (recently), and loves my mum instead.
Mylvera,
I eat 1 piece of cut pineapple every day at work. Cannot resist leh, pineapple my favourite! I attended Mrs Wong classes during #1 pregnancy, she said pineapple is safe. After that, my hubby allows me to eat pineapple already. Proven to be okay, cos #1 I also ate lots of pineapple. And sashimi, my gynae said no problem, she actually encourage me to have sashimi
Really ah? Okay, must think now how to talk to my brother. Called my mum just now, and yes, she said she started to think it's autism also. No family history in my family and my SIL's family. But for my SIL side, though they also have 4 children, but all of them, include the parents, all very quiet type, except 1 sister. All won't say much, you talk to them also 1 answer to 1 question type. My SIL's mum is bad, he commented my #2 nephew will be a "ya ba" (can't talk), that makes my SIL hates her own mum (recently), and loves my mum instead.
Mylvera,
I eat 1 piece of cut pineapple every day at work. Cannot resist leh, pineapple my favourite! I attended Mrs Wong classes during #1 pregnancy, she said pineapple is safe. After that, my hubby allows me to eat pineapple already. Proven to be okay, cos #1 I also ate lots of pineapple. And sashimi, my gynae said no problem, she actually encourage me to have sashimi
wendy,
lolz not tat i click with him. my hb quite like him but i told hb liao. if this time got pre-eclampsia symptoms n woody still ignores, i m going to change gynae even if i paid for his package. but den his stitches very nice leh .. i scare change gynae end up have ugly scars haha
lolz not tat i click with him. my hb quite like him but i told hb liao. if this time got pre-eclampsia symptoms n woody still ignores, i m going to change gynae even if i paid for his package. but den his stitches very nice leh .. i scare change gynae end up have ugly scars haha
mylvera
my fren pre-eclampsia.. bad migraine, see flashes, throw up. warded for a week @ Mt E coz her gynae is there. U can imagine the $$$$$$. I think in the end emer c-sect due to her blood pressure problem. baby was 3 wks early. total bill $10k i think. *pengsan*
she so frightened abt getting preg again.
my fren pre-eclampsia.. bad migraine, see flashes, throw up. warded for a week @ Mt E coz her gynae is there. U can imagine the $$$$$$. I think in the end emer c-sect due to her blood pressure problem. baby was 3 wks early. total bill $10k i think. *pengsan*
she so frightened abt getting preg again.
