hey AhCapp,
Yes Mdm!! i will take lots of rest aft surgery. They did highlight the possible risk of infection...like prevent to rub the eyes, don't wash face & hair for 2days & stop any vigorous sports for 2mths etc. Well, even my hair colour appointment with the salon this Friday got to postpone liao...scare the chemical dye might affect the eyes!
Zander also eating total 6 feeds a day (120 to 140ml) Sometimes hor, his feeding schedule inconsistant one, can be 5 feeds a day at PIL side during wkdays & come to wkends when we fetch him home, he take 6 to 7 feeds a day!
Regarding feeling bad & guilty...well, i felt the same before too but must tell yrself that we are not superwomen la. As long as we know how to balance work life & family, we are doing WELL too! WOMEN nowadays very difficult to be a devoted wife to hubby n still juggle between work n family! Next life i wanna be MAN...keke