Icy: my #1' labour was around 10 hours. Maybe partly because of the epidural. But this time, the midwife here advised me to take raspberry tea to shorten the labour and I did and it worked (i think). Somehow, pain is ok for me I just can't stand the pressure on my hips when it's time to push. I also took 1 cup of raspberry when my contraction started. ;-)) Maybe you can try now?
Mylvera: hahaha. not so soon lah. Just gave birth only!! kekekeke.
Kam: generally, J is very loving toward bb #2. Only when she needs me, she will not let me carry mei mei at all. Yesterday bb#2 cried and I wanted to go in and carry her, but J stopped me from coming in. ;-(
This morning we got some visitors, I went up to pick up bb#2 down, J asked me to pass mei mei to my mil and insisted that I have to carry her.
All the time, she is my help to play with mei mei. When bathe time comes, she will prepare the towel for baby. So far, not so good. She only show her jealousy over mei mei when she really needs me (bathe, changing nappy or reading). I have made the point to read for both of them at the same time and she is ok with it. Cross my fingers.