QQ,
Poor TT, hugz hugz. A braze girl she is.
For me, life is getting busier and busier, but I think we are coping well, thankfully. Usually hubby can't knock off work on time. So I fetch both kids alone. Put HR in the stroller, hang all the bags (including my precious BM) on the stroller, sling my baby, and off we go. Reach home, put baby down while HR waits in his stroller, unload all the bags, then HR can finally come down to play. Amazing for the past 3 weeks, HR is so coopearative (touch wood) that he has never fussed during the car ride and while in his stroller till we reach home!
While at home, if both are in good mood, I play with both of them together, and also let HR play (I have to teach him how and have to supervise) with his meimei. Until either one of them need my attention, then usually let HR watch tv for a while. And that's when both of them are behaving well. On a bad day, both of them cry, both want my attention at the same time. So I can only attend to 1 first and let the other 1 cry. And usually after that, my mood affected and got a bit impatient with them. But luckily usually by this time, hubby will reach home for the rescue! Hubby has been of great help, he does things automatically - do laundry, wash dishes, put baby to sleep, feed baby EBM, play with HR. And have to thank HR to be so 懂事. He plays on his own when he sees I am busy with Meimei. Of course is not always that good, but I am very happy already with him being such a good boy thus far.
In short, I am happy to have 2 jobs for now - my "official" job during day time, and the more demanding mothering job at night
